Outsider85 wrote:
She said she told me along time ago that she told me her cats will always be more important and that I ignored her.
Some people think of their pets as their own children, especially women who don't have kids. My parents treat the dog they got after I moved out better than they treated me or at least it seems that way to me & my girlfriend. My girlfriend had a cat when we got together & Cass told me that she needed to be with someone who was OK with that. I understood. I had a chinchilla & me & Cass accepted each other's pets.
Is there some reason you couldn't move in with her & the cats Outsider? I can understand not wanting to have a cat. I don't care for them that much myself. I prefer dogs but I would find 8 dogs or 8 of most pets difficult to handle.
As for as her owing you money, I would suggest that you don't push too hard & you might wanna be prepared to let it go. I gave my 2nd girlfriend a credit card while we were together. We were planning on moving in together anyways & I knew she kinda needed money for emergencies. She used the card a couple or a few times. I don't remember how much she owed me, I know it was a bit more than one hundred but less than five. When she broke up with me I told her not to worry about paying me back. She was in college & didn't have much money. I still loved her(still do) & during the time we were together I had been doing some stuff on computer to make alittle extra money. It wasn't much, it varied a lot but I would guess an average of like $85. The money I made doing that stuff during the half a year we were together was a little more than she owed me so I looked at that stuff I did as covering what she owed me. We were long distance & that stuff gave me something to do while me & her were texting/chatting.
21 Aug 2019, 5:21 pm
