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Just like if you pretended to be a female, and posted a pic of a hawt supermodel in your profile. You would get zillions of hits by shallow men slobbering over "your" good looks.

I'm looking for a rich lady, preferably an aristocrat who enjoys slumming it and likes trailers. I can fix most things with a ball of string and a hammer but don't worry, I'm not house-proud or anything!I also wear odd socks, which I'm told is a sign of latent creativity (as yet untapped). I don't go out much, I prefer to stay at home, not cuddling up, not on a sofa, maybe watching something trashy.

Most people are probably looking for a partner, not someone they have to support. It's not necessarily about wanting money, just equality.

There are probably many people out there who would date you, but they can tell you consider yourself a loser, so they look elsewhere. I think your profile experiment was more about confirming your view of yourself as a loser than learning anything about people. You enjoy self-loathing and want to be single. I went through a period of this, but it's gross. You'll be much happier--and find someone--once you move on.

Also, why do so many here try to systematize men and women and then wonder why they're single? People are not systems.

Regardless of his self image, he gets an immediate response by lying about his salary, otherwise no response.

Being fatalistic is gloomy and off-putting for many people, one gets the impression that communication would revolve around stereotypes.

I want to ask, just exactly how rich did you say you were Sly?

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You nailed it.

The difference with lower income women is that they usually assume the role of a mom and housekeeper. A valuable contribution to a partnership even though it doesn't bring in any money.

Yeah those unemployed women living at thst parents demanding a guy who makes 20,000 or more are looking for their equals
Most women date up.
I’ve been rejected by a lot of women who are my equal or lessor.

I don’t want to be single. That’s why I’m trying to date. I’d love to go on dates. But I don’t get matches and with today’s dating apps if you don’t match you can’t message. So I can’t message women anymore and maybe get a date by my messages. Its dropped my dating changes from slim to zero

You don’t know me.

The women shouldn’t act like they do or post their profiles of they don’t want guys talking about it.
Similar guys who say they only date thin fit young women are opening themselves up to being called superficial.
If you open yourself to public you opening your to be talked about.
Superficial men on dating sites are common subject on feminist sites and blogs. Don’t see why superficial women shouldn’t be too.

Also it wasn’t an experiment. I did it out of desperation one night while yet again crying to sleep. Thought maybe it’s time to be bad guy and lie.

I don’t need to be supported but I can’t provide and that seems they be the issue.

Would you defend men who refuse to date chubby women or women with Job?

But I don’t why I expect people on this site to think mIn wage men are worthy of love.
Mean not like most aspies are on welfare or anything

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50,000 so an average good salary. Mean police make that much, I said I work IT.
but I can’t afford to live that lie.

Unless they don’t want kids and this seems to say Lower income men are worthless and don’t bring Andy value.

Companionship should be the only value anyone seeks for a relationship.

Niiice! Welcome to the world of dating. I knew you'd make it.

Now the question is how to keep them from finding out you're not rich. My advice is to just not mention your salary at all.

When I show up by bus they figure it out. Or rather when I suggest a walk in the park for a date.

I get what you're saying about catching the bus but consider, I didn't own a car when I met my current girlfriend and I used public transport to get to our first date. Our second date was in her car.

You do not need to own a car to get a girlfriend.

Tell them you don't drive a car because you are doing your bit to help Greta save the environment and don't want to add to fossil fuel use! It might not be true but would be a reason some girls might fall for.

Then say "I don't go to expensive restaurants because the extra money spent could rather go to the less priviliged in society..."

All in all, it’s better to be honest.

You do have a driver’s license...that’s an advantage others don’t have.

Go to a toy shop, buy toy bank notes... (Play money). Use your one or two real notes at the front and fillthe rest behind with the toy notes. I have ever done this, but someone I know told e that he used to just cut paper and filled them inbetween two notes to make it look like he was wealthy...


Ok. I would never do this myself....

That’s called a “Detroit roll” in the US.

Few women would fall for this....