12 Aug 2020, 11:46 pm
Brehus wrote:
As a NT guy who is married to AS girl and has some AS guy friends People with AS have a tendency to be very loyal and dedicated as described and always be there for you but I recomend just getting to know the person exceptionally well first check out how they live some of them have some really annoying traits that take a lot patients to deal with for a example the AS person in my life for some reason struggles to put trash in a trash bag she manages to put two pieces of trash in the bag a day it mostly takes over a week to fill up a single trash bag and she makes trash faster then she force herself to throw it way so I have to go behind her and throw away stuff or it will pile up. she will several times a week get so caught up on an obsession she forget I exist I actually like this trait because I dont like to be bothered.
She also suffers from bad case of sensory overload I can be on the phone on the other side of the house and it will wake her up while sleeping and has to come running to see who I am talking to my chair can sqeak and she will wake up and ask what is that noise .
I also had to learn how hard a push her when I trying to help her as she will have a melt down of I push her too hard.
She also suffers from bad case of sensory overload I can be on the phone on the other side of the house and it will wake her up while sleeping and has to come running to see who I am talking to my chair can sqeak and she will wake up and ask what is that noise .
I also had to learn how hard a push her when I trying to help her as she will have a melt down of I push her too hard.
I find these types of things adorable in an aspie woman.
It adds character/uniqueness to the person.
Brehus wrote:
The good traits that make it worth while she is pretty enough to be a model 5ft 5 100lbs extremely athletic material artist only girl I have even know with a six pack real good at softball. Never controlling let's me do whatever I want no questions asked never tries to tell me how to spend my check and I still consider her better then Most NT girls.
I highly recommend giving a AS person a chance just be observant is all and make sure the good out weighs any bad If any they have.
In my case I think the good out weights the bad.
I highly recommend giving a AS person a chance just be observant is all and make sure the good out weighs any bad If any they have.
In my case I think the good out weights the bad.
Aspie women. <sigh>
13 Aug 2020, 1:04 am
Pepe wrote:
Fnord wrote:
Only YOU can tell what your feelings really are, and if your feelings are strong enough to enter into a relationship. But if you have any doubt, don't; it is better to bruise his heart a little now than to completely shatter it later.
Total rubbish.
*I* know what the OP needs to hear and think.
*I* know what is best for her and her friend.
*I* am in control.
*I* am cupid's apprentice and will handle this.
Step aside, amateur.
The OPs thread title and post says she is looking for advice
13 Aug 2020, 2:10 am
enz wrote:
Pepe wrote:
Fnord wrote:
Only YOU can tell what your feelings really are, and if your feelings are strong enough to enter into a relationship. But if you have any doubt, don't; it is better to bruise his heart a little now than to completely shatter it later.
Total rubbish.
*I* know what the OP needs to hear and think.
*I* know what is best for her and her friend.
*I* am in control.
*I* am cupid's apprentice and will handle this.
Step aside, amateur.
The OPs thread title and post says she is looking for advice
I believe she wanted *good* advice.
Not *Fnord* advice.
14 Aug 2020, 6:50 am
Pepe wrote:
enz wrote:
Pepe wrote:
Fnord wrote:
Only YOU can tell what your feelings really are, and if your feelings are strong enough to enter into a relationship. But if you have any doubt, don't; it is better to bruise his heart a little now than to completely shatter it later.
Total rubbish.
*I* know what the OP needs to hear and think.
*I* know what is best for her and her friend.
*I* am in control.
*I* am cupid's apprentice and will handle this.
Step aside, amateur.
The OPs thread title and post says she is looking for advice
I believe she wanted *good* advice.
Not *Fnord* advice.
I am laughing!
Fnord's advice was clear and simple. Pepe's advice makes me laugh every time.
I appreciate all of it!
14 Aug 2020, 7:14 am
NatureLoverNT wrote:
Pepe wrote:
enz wrote:
Pepe wrote:
Fnord wrote:
Only YOU can tell what your feelings really are, and if your feelings are strong enough to enter into a relationship. But if you have any doubt, don't; it is better to bruise his heart a little now than to completely shatter it later.
Total rubbish.
*I* know what the OP needs to hear and think.
*I* know what is best for her and her friend.
*I* am in control.
*I* am cupid's apprentice and will handle this.
Step aside, amateur.
The OPs thread title and post says she is looking for advice
I believe she wanted *good* advice.
Not *Fnord* advice.
I am laughing!
Fnord's advice was clear and simple. Pepe's advice makes me laugh every time.
I appreciate all of it!
Fnord has no personality.
He is as dry as the Mojave Desert.
I, on the other hand...
Well, do I have to spell it out?
14 Aug 2020, 2:34 pm
Pepe wrote:
Fnord wrote:
Only YOU can tell what your feelings really are, and if your feelings are strong enough to enter into a relationship. But if you have any doubt, don't; it is better to bruise his heart a little now than to completely shatter it later.
Total rubbish.
*I* know what the OP needs to hear and think.
*I* know what is best for her and her friend.
*I* am in control.
*I* am cupid's apprentice and will handle this.
Step aside, amateur.
Well put.
I think that if people don't dare to believe in love they will never find it and instead will forever be looking for somebody better.
So, it is pretty bad advice to be afraid of strong feelings that you might not know where they will lead. It's better to go into love without expecations and rules and let the heart decide instead.
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