Men should get engagement rings if they like

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17 Aug 2020, 12:24 am

^ Ah just noticed my example picture wasn't what I described because she is wearing two wedding bands

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17 Aug 2020, 12:26 am

Feyokien wrote:

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Now I feel like I should have waited for my wife to propose to me.

Not really a watch person

Engagement Lego set perhaps

Hmm that could work as compensation

... though I can't really wear a Lego set

How's this then?

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17 Aug 2020, 12:28 am

omg my nice brother would LOVE that. he has been a big fan of boba's since the beginning

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17 Aug 2020, 12:37 am

AuroraBorealisGazer wrote:

How's this then?

Find a way to make it cost 3 months worth of salary and you got a deal

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17 Aug 2020, 12:39 am

whose salary? because for those suffering/working in sweatshops, that might be possible.

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17 Aug 2020, 12:41 am

^ easy I'll just get a way lower salary

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17 Aug 2020, 1:54 am

i'd need a raise :jester:

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17 Aug 2020, 8:28 am

Oh_no_its_Ferris wrote:

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Whoever proposes should buy the rings.

^ both rings ?

Yes, definitely. Just as the person who asks for a date should pay for the date, so too should the person who asks for a marriage pay for the marriage -- rings, gowns, tuxes, venue, flowers, reception, catering, band/deejay, transportation, honeymoon, mortgage/rent, utilities, groceries, kids, day-care, cars, education, and the inevitable divorce (incl. alimony, child support, legal fees, et cetera).

That's just my opinion, however.

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17 Aug 2020, 8:31 am

Fnord wrote:

Oh_no_its_Ferris wrote:

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Whoever proposes should buy the rings.

^ both rings ?

Yes, definitely.

That's just my opinion, however.

It could well be tradition in a few years.

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17 Aug 2020, 8:33 am

blooiejagwa wrote:

whose salary? because for those suffering/working in sweatshops, that might be possible.

That's what I needed in the morning...some dark humor. :lol:

. The worlds a messed up place.

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^ easy I'll just get a way lower salary

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17 Aug 2020, 8:33 am

Fnord wrote:

Oh_no_its_Ferris wrote:

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Whoever proposes should buy the rings.

^ both rings ?

Seems like a good reason for avoiding getting married. And for not asking anybody for a date.

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17 Aug 2020, 8:37 am

rdos wrote:

Fnord wrote:

Oh_no_its_Ferris wrote:

Fnord wrote:

Whoever proposes should buy the rings.

^ both rings ?

Seems like a good reason for avoiding getting married. And for not asking anybody for a date.

It could also be a good reason for someone to take on full responsibility for their own actions and make something of themselves before dating or getting married.

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17 Aug 2020, 8:46 am

Fnord wrote:

rdos wrote:

Fnord wrote:

Oh_no_its_Ferris wrote:

Fnord wrote:

Whoever proposes should buy the rings.

^ both rings ?

Seems like a good reason for avoiding getting married. And for not asking anybody for a date.

It could also be a good reason for someone to take on full responsibility for their own actions and make something of themselves before dating or getting married.

Social identities are pretty foreign to most NDs, and so could just be ignored unless you are looking for NTs. Ideally, during ND courtship, people should have no idea about each other's social identities or position in the hierarchy. Which kind of proves it's a non-issue.

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17 Aug 2020, 9:43 am

rdos wrote:

Fnord wrote:

rdos wrote:

Fnord wrote:

Oh_no_its_Ferris wrote:

Fnord wrote:

Whoever proposes should buy the rings.

^ both rings ?

Seems like a good reason for avoiding getting married. And for not asking anybody for a date.

It could also be a good reason for someone to take on full responsibility for their own actions and make something of themselves before dating or getting married.

Perhaps before dating or marriage; but after dating or being married for a while, a person's economic status and social outlook will become apparent, if not obvious.

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17 Aug 2020, 2:04 pm

OP, try to convince first the society that it's ok for women to ask out men and pay for dinners, before convincing them to propose and buy rings.

There's still way to go before that.

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17 Aug 2020, 2:16 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

OP, try to convince first the society in general and a lot of the women in particular (the majority of them at least), that it's ok for women to ask out men and pay for dinners, before convincing them to propose and buy rings. There's still way to go before that.

^This, QFT.

I could go into a long rant about the real differences in courtship behaviors between men and women, but anything else I could add would either be obvious to anyone who has ever dated, or it would be misconstrued as sexist stereotyping.

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