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17 Aug 2020, 8:24 pm

Oh_no_its_Ferris wrote:
but there was always that nagging comment from Ferris Bueller that Cameron would marry the first girl he laid , I broke of the engagement and the relationship because of this - I'm an ass :clown:


I can't make the connection. Why did you break it off? Because she wasn't the first girl you laid?


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17 Aug 2020, 8:25 pm

RightGalaxy wrote:
Oh_no_its_Ferris wrote:
^ obviously a dingle :mrgreen:


:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: Thanks, I needed that!! My kid's drivin me NUTZZZ!!


I went to the Dr's the other day with a steering wheel down the front of my underwear.
The Dr asked how did that get there.
I said I'm unsure but it driving me nuts.


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17 Aug 2020, 8:27 pm

Yeah all the more reason....I've driven through rural towns in Victoria with a population of 50 here in Australia and the local shops hire the prettiest girl in the town because its good for business and brings local farmers and farm workers. Many fellows will drive a hundred km to buy milk if there is a pretty girl who smiles at them.



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17 Aug 2020, 8:29 pm

that1weirdgrrrl wrote:
Oh_no_its_Ferris wrote:
but there was always that nagging comment from Ferris Bueller that Cameron would marry the first girl he laid , I broke of the engagement and the relationship because of this - I'm an ass :clown:


I can't make the connection. Why did you break it off? Because she wasn't the first girl you laid?


No , she was my first. And I thought there was something wrong with marrying the first girl you laid due to Ferris saying it was a bad idea for Cameron. :jester:


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17 Aug 2020, 8:40 pm

I wanted to marry my first lover.....but she left me for a motorcycle guy.



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17 Aug 2020, 8:50 pm

Aurora: That’s what I’ve been thinking; that as much as I don’t want to come off as creepy, I know that what I am thinking of doing works on some girls. A couple years ago however, there was a girl whom I had found on Snapchat and added her and she was right in front of me when I did that. She said my first and last name but nothing else happened then. The next day I asked her “y’know that(my name)guy that added you yesterday?“ She just laughed and walked away. Let’s just say that she humiliated me and called me names for several other people to hear. Even if something like that happens again, I don’t think I’ll have anything to regret.

RightGalaxy: she only works evening shifts as far as I’m aware. And I did think about asking her on a date but my mom said that I should just give my number and nothing else because that’ll be enough for her to get the message. And I want to give her a note because there’s usually another cashier there when she’s there and I don’t want to say anything out loud if that’s the case.

Kraftie: I know her first name bc of her name tag. I’ve tried to search for people with that name on Facebook but I haven’t found an account that matches her description.


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17 Aug 2020, 8:54 pm

Probably too common a name.....

If her name was Hyacinth, you’d probably stand a better chance.



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17 Aug 2020, 8:57 pm

^ sorry you had that experience. Hope you have better luck this time!



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17 Aug 2020, 8:59 pm

Feyokien wrote:
Is this the part of Iowa where there is only one gas station for tens of miles around?
Not exactly. There’s a few other gas stations and fast food places in the area.


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17 Aug 2020, 9:34 pm

CubsBullsBears wrote:
Feyokien wrote:
Is this the part of Iowa where there is only one gas station for tens of miles around?
Not exactly. There’s a few other gas stations and fast food places in the area.


That's good. Makes the point of awkwardness not a big deal.



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17 Aug 2020, 10:46 pm

Update: I just stopped by the gas station on my way home from work and she was there. I had a little slip of paper with just my name and number. The interaction with her went great and she pointed out that I had cut my hair. I bought a couple of things, handed her the note and left.

Annnnnd, we wait..................


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17 Aug 2020, 10:53 pm

^that escalated quickly 8O. Nothing ventured nothing gained I suppose. Good luck :)



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17 Aug 2020, 10:57 pm

Ooo awesome, very courageous. My (probably obvious) words of wisdom now would be to put it out of your mind and if she calls, great, and if not it wasn't meant to be.

Of course I'm sure we're all going to be hoping for an update to know if this method worked :P



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17 Aug 2020, 11:41 pm

CubsBullsBears wrote:
Update: I just stopped by the gas station on my way home from work and she was there. I had a little slip of paper with just my name and number. The interaction with her went great and she pointed out that I had cut my hair. I bought a couple of things, handed her the note and left.

Annnnnd, we wait..................


Ummm you left out the part where you handed her the note?



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17 Aug 2020, 11:43 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
Probably too common a name.....

If her name was Hyacinth, you’d probably stand a better chance.


Girls with flower names are generally nice....Heather, Hyacinth, Rose, Petunia, Daisy (probably should start a thread on girls names with flowers)



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17 Aug 2020, 11:47 pm

RightGalaxy wrote:
Depending on her scheduled work day, she may get to have a 1/2 hour or hour lunch. Ask her this and then offer to take her to lunch. After lunch, ask her to give you a call if you still like her. Don't just give her a slip of paper with your number on it...it's cheesy (cheap).


That is what I thought.
Even a little creepy.
But other women here don't seem to have a problem with it. <shrug>

Oops!
Too late. ;)

This will be interesting. 8)