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24 Aug 2020, 6:12 pm

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How “obese” are you, actually?

Before I started exercising, I was about 180 at 5 foot 5. Right at the beginning of “obese.” That didn’t deter women.

And I’ve seen 500 pound men getting married.


I'm over 270 lbs. at 5'10". My body weight is %42 fat.

And I doubt those 500 lbs. men married their first choices.



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24 Aug 2020, 6:14 pm

Fnord wrote:
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Then why is it impossible for women to find me attractive?
What do you have to offer that any sane, healthy, and attractive woman woman would want?
Nothing.
Seriously?  No handyman skills, no household skills, no artistic talents ... literally nothing?


Nope. No handyman or household skills whatsoever. Just a bunch of useless comic book trivia.

I used to draw, but all I could do was copy drawings from other people. I lost interest in that several years ago.



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24 Aug 2020, 6:27 pm

dorkseid wrote:
Fnord wrote:
dorkseid wrote:
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Then why is it impossible for women to find me attractive?
What do you have to offer that any sane, healthy, and attractive woman woman would want?
Nothing.
Seriously?  No handyman skills, no household skills, no artistic talents ... literally nothing?
No. No handyman or household skills whatsoever. Just a bunch of useless comic book trivia.  I used to draw, but all I could do was copy drawings from other people. I lost interest in that several years ago.
Then I suggest that you acquire those skills.  People in general will be attracted to you only for what you do.



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24 Aug 2020, 6:31 pm

Too late for that now.

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Anyway, I feel that its too late for me at this point. I'm getting older and I'm obese. I don't want to be too descriptive, but let's say my body doesn't work as well as it used to. I have extremely low testosterone levels. I was going to a men's clinic for treatment, but then Covid happened.



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24 Aug 2020, 6:42 pm

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Too late for that now...
Is your medical condition in its terminal phase?



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24 Aug 2020, 7:04 pm

Fnord wrote:
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Too late for that now...
Is your medical condition in its terminal phase?


Its not a terminal condition, but it still kills any chance of ever being in an intimate relationship.



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24 Aug 2020, 7:18 pm

dorkseid wrote:
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Too late for that now...
Is your medical condition in its terminal phase?
Its not a terminal condition, but it still kills any chance of ever being in an intimate relationship.
Then there is no advice I could give you.



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24 Aug 2020, 7:24 pm

Start by walking around the block. You don’t have to walk fast. Walk at a speed where you won’t be huffing and puffing. If you go 2.5 mph, that’s okay. Start off by walking about 15 minutes.



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24 Aug 2020, 7:28 pm

Fnord wrote:
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... I believe Fnord married a girl from Japan...
Philippines.


Thanks for the correction.


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