03 Sep 2020, 3:15 am
03 Sep 2020, 3:39 am
I'm not a virgin, but its starting to feel that way again, its been 7-8yrs since my last time...
I can, unfortunately, relate to this 
A big part of the problem is that when you are alone for a long time, you stop doing the little things that the other sex delights in, cuz why bother? You "let yourself go", as they say, stop obsessing over your grooming, your wardrobe...instead, your 'special interests', quirks, favorite foods, and cats---things that give you regular pleasure---take center stage.
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03 Sep 2020, 3:40 am
03 Sep 2020, 4:11 am
AcidicBlue3127 wrote:
I'm not a virgin, but its starting to feel that way again, its been 7-8yrs since my last time.
And yes, it feels like it will never happen (again).
And yes, it feels like it will never happen (again).
It has been 25 years since I had intercourse.
But then, intercourse is not my thing.
03 Sep 2020, 4:12 am
03 Sep 2020, 4:16 am
03 Sep 2020, 4:17 am
nick007 wrote:
Nades wrote:
I always say the same thing to people who have a massive monkey on their back called "virginity" and that is just go somewhere where it's legal and get a half decent escort or call girl.
It's not worth beating yourself up over the mystery of it potentially for years when getting rid of that monkey is just a phone call away.
Losing your virginity isn't really that amazing though to be fair.
i'm not against this but I think this is a decision people should seriously analyze & think hard about. It's not something people should do on a whim. Some people will regret losing their virginity to someone they're not in a serious relationship with. Plus escorts, call-girls, prositutes are more likely to have STDs,STIsIt's not worth beating yourself up over the mystery of it potentially for years when getting rid of that monkey is just a phone call away.
Losing your virginity isn't really that amazing though to be fair.
Go to a legal sex parlor. There are mandatory health checks.
And wear protection, FFS.
03 Sep 2020, 4:20 am
maycontainthunder wrote:
I've given this quite a bit of thought. "yes" to the question doesn't really say very much but the problem is I've been mostly mentally rewired so I don't find women attractive because the reality is even if I was the last man alive not one woman would want to be near me.
There are sex workers who specialise in "servicing" people with disabilities.
They are used to a different clientele.
There are also sexual surrogates, but I believe they are quite expensive.
03 Sep 2020, 4:24 am
Romofan wrote:
I'm not a virgin, but its starting to feel that way again, its been 7-8yrs since my last time...
I can, unfortunately, relate to this
A big part of the problem is that when you are alone for a long time, you stop doing the little things that the other sex delights in, cuz why bother? You "let yourself go", as they say, stop obsessing over your grooming, your wardrobe...instead, your 'special interests', quirks, favorite foods, and cats---things that give you regular pleasure---take center stage.
I can, unfortunately, relate to this
A big part of the problem is that when you are alone for a long time, you stop doing the little things that the other sex delights in, cuz why bother? You "let yourself go", as they say, stop obsessing over your grooming, your wardrobe...instead, your 'special interests', quirks, favorite foods, and cats---things that give you regular pleasure---take center stage.
People can change their habits if they are motivated.
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03 Sep 2020, 4:44 am
03 Sep 2020, 4:55 am
Pepe wrote:
maycontainthunder wrote:
I've given this quite a bit of thought. "yes" to the question doesn't really say very much but the problem is I've been mostly mentally rewired so I don't find women attractive because the reality is even if I was the last man alive not one woman would want to be near me.
There are sex workers who specialise in "servicing" people with disabilities.
They are used to a different clientele.
There are also sexual surrogates, but I believe they are quite expensive.
The rules set by others prevent me considering this kind of thing. In any case, I seriously doubt that even the individuals you mention would go near me even if I had a clue what was happening.
I am 100% illiterate when it comes to women.
03 Sep 2020, 3:47 pm
03 Sep 2020, 3:53 pm
Nades wrote:
They where much more picky on protection and cleanliness than the other "regular" women iv'e been with. Years later I'm still fine and know a lot more about WW2 and the invasion of Poland, Polish Christmas fish dishes, the Borderlands video game series and french bulldogs because it seemed to be a regular topic of convo for some reason with them.
Not gonna lie, that sounds a lot more interesting than I'd expect the average visit to a courtesan to be...
03 Sep 2020, 4:23 pm
Wolfram87 wrote:
Nades wrote:
They where much more picky on protection and cleanliness than the other "regular" women iv'e been with. Years later I'm still fine and know a lot more about WW2 and the invasion of Poland, Polish Christmas fish dishes, the Borderlands video game series and french bulldogs because it seemed to be a regular topic of convo for some reason with them.
Not gonna lie, that sounds a lot more interesting than I'd expect the average visit to a courtesan to be...
My mind was honestly blown when I heard they traditionally eat fish on Christmas. "You eat what? Seriously, Fish? but.....why?"
Half of the fun was wondering what they were going to say. It's actually worth considering if someone's virginity is bothering them a lot. There are some very decent escorts/call girls/ladies of the night that take being clean very seriously and are complete goofballs who will get into the most chilled of convos when you're both comfortable, Aspergers and all. They're also often pretty and I really mean hot if you look. There is no need to have good social skills, they initiate everything for you regardless of what one you go for. The only way you can really find the cliche unsavoury ones is if you go out your way to look for them by driving in shady parts of town but why would anyone want to do that?
03 Sep 2020, 4:42 pm
03 Sep 2020, 5:13 pm
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Nades wrote:
True. Not everyone can afford it but I guess it's still an option. As for the STD's I imagine it's not much of an issue. I think the risk for STD's is a bit overblown personally.
No they're not, there are literally hundreds of STD types; and those are the nastiest:
https://smartsexresource.com/about-stis ... -chances-0
Beg to differ.
Legal sex establishments, here in Australia, have mandatory, regular health checks.
No check,
No "jiggy jiggy".
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