Getting unfairly labelled this!

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Reading this thread really sadden me ...Your stories above-mentioned are tangible proof that people in general have fulfilled the Bible prophecy found in 2 Timothy 3:1-5...Please note these are all negative characteristics...And i am sorry that you all have been victimized to such a deplorable extent ...There is no justification for such bullies...None whatsoever!! !...And know that God will not tolerate such behavior forever!! !

It hurts me deeply to think that my beloved (Aspie) husband could be mistaken by anything less than what he truly is, a genuinely kind heart...

Man, you are not a pedophile.

It's just a thing some people say to be insulting, to people they find to have a somewhat awkward appearance. It really is unfair. But yeah the people that say that don't mean they actually think you are a pedophile, they are just being mean.

There is no actual 'pedophile' look, a pedophile can look any way.

If you hang around people your own age, that won't happen.

When pursuing my Bachelor's in Legal Studies, i did study criminal profiling...And a pedophile can be a priest, a minister, a teacher, a doctor, a sports coach...Practically, anyone who has authority over a child, even his or her own parent...Generally speaking it is someone close to the family...So, DO NOT TAKE SUCH INSULTS PERSONAL...Don't feel bad for yourself...Do feel bad for those ignorant bullies...Greetings from California...

That can get a bit complicated though. I mean I am 30 and one of my brothers is 18 and he's cool so I don't want to exclude him...will probably invite him to come hang out at my place sometimes. We did not connect a ton when we were younger but he is my brother and I would like a better connection with him.

But yeah just saying its not always cut and dry of like just hang out with people your own age. Or like if you become an in-law to a family where there are kids and you end up interacting with the kids.

1) He’s your brother. Also, he’s 18, not a prepubescent child.

2) That’s a normal interaction with children. (So long as your interaction with them is normal that is.

What people mean is don’t go hang around an elementary school playground staring at kids/trying to befriend them. Certainly don’t touch a child in any inappropriate ways etc. Don’t do things that could be perceived as creepy towards children.

I got labeled this by a bunch of autie kids before I knew i was on the spectrum. Practically i was interested in groups and the experience and when i joined theirs they acted all weird because I talked about the person who brought me there in my intro and expressed i will be supportive of her. This group had mostly younger people on the spectrum. I could relate to her experience of school despite the memory of school experiences really frustrating me.

I worked and cleared my image but I was hurt and letdown by the community and left, and blocked the girl on the site we initially met.