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It's the internetz, you'll get over it. Go fapfap or sumthin'.

Agreed. Your story doesn't even make
sense.

5. Do drugs

Say, know two drugs?

Sorry,
but I am not insane and I don't do medications. For one, I hate side effects. I thank you for your advice guys but I am not going to take medications over some guy who ignores me. I will just have to get over it sooner or later. I need to find the right solution to let go of men that aren't into me. Because medications won't solve the world's problems. They will just give a bunch of health problems.

Wait a minute... In her defense, a lot of you Aspie guys here seem to go gaga over bitchy insensitive women too. There are a lot of crappy people out there and Aspies are naturally at a disadvantage when it comes to recognizing them for their true nature, that is the problem (there are also a lot of decent people out there, it's just that the crappy ones seem to make a more lasting impression on the memory).

Also, if I remember correctly, Miyah's an Aspie, not an NT.

Miyah,


Your aspies sounds just like my ex. He spend all his time on his computer playing WOW and never get off unless he was going to bed, going to the bathroom, or getting himself something to eat. He never spent time with me and expected me to tell him to be with me. Before that all started happening, he would be with me all the time and we were always together but then when i told him I didn't want to do sex anymore till it got cool out again (it was summer time so it was real hot out and the temperature was in the 90's 100's so the sex was uncomfy) and bam that was the last time he was with me. He went to his computer and spent all his time there.


But I think it's hard for your aspie to break his routine because he is so far into it. We do like having our routines and it is overwelming, causes us anxiety and chaos inside of us when we have to break it but we do learn how do deal with it eventually. I find it hard sometimes too to break mine. That's why I prefer freinds right now, no relationships. I can't be with someone all the time. It's too much.

You can try to encourage him to make him have you get into his routine by soending time with you and then fitting in his D&D time and he can have a time period for it like sets say he spends at least two hours on it at 2PM to 4PM lets say. That's what I'd do for myself if I had a relationship. I'd give myself a chat night, computer day when I am spending time on the compter working on my stories, going to the forums I visit and chatting. I'd give myself Benny & Joon too. The movie only last an hour and 38 min. Then I'd have spending time with my boyfriend period.

I thought that was Johnny Depp. I love him as Captain Jack Sparrow and he's sort of my imaginary boyfriend right now.

Knowing that someone likes you can really focus your attention. It's hard to appreciate that there are literally millions of other people you could date, because you fixate on one. When you do that, you're putting a lot of your well being into the hands of a single person, and are at the whim of their caprice.

I find that the best way to set myself straight is to have "me time," where I work on a pet project for awhile and get back in touch with who I am and what I like. It's when I'm happy with and proud of myself that I feel attractive and deserving of a worthy girl.

I find a big difference between
thinking that they are interested
and KNOWING that they are hooked.

The first, though 'tis hard to give up,
is nothing like the second.

There are also some Aspies who are very flexible, and are, in fact, borderline AS/NT.

I am among them.

Tim

I USED to be pretty darned flexible.
Damned near a full split. More impressive
things which I really can't mention. Hurt
my back though.

no.

that justs messes things up.

Yes, this is one of the unfathomable contradictions of love - the nice ones are seen as boring and the naughty/bossy/insensitive ones as exciting. Hard to figure out.

I'm confused. Do you like him, or do you hold him in contempt?




How do you get charmed by someone's looks?


N.B. I'm not trying to be rude or to provoke you with my questions, I am simply very confused.

He just has this gorgeous smile and beautiful blue eyes, and there you go. And yes, I do like him. But I am confused on the face that my good friend told me that he likes me, and then someone else said that he doesn't. So that's where confusion comes in on the whole story. I am saying I don't know who to believe and I certainly can't get the truth out of him.