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29 Nov 2021, 11:28 am
nick007 wrote:
I noticed that some of those faces look Asian. Asian is a very popular porn fetish but I don't get the attraction. They're petite but so are lots of non Asian women, & they tend to play schoolgirls & teens but so do lots of non Asian women, & they tend to do lots of cosplay type stuff which I like but otherwise I don't get the attraction. That said I do NOT find em unattractive & I would have nothing against being in a relationship with one if she was a nice person.
In my personal experience, the attraction is more attitudinal than physical -- Asian women seem to be less adversarial and more "partnering" than their American contemporaries, but this should never be mistaken for submissiveness on their part.
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29 Nov 2021, 12:35 pm
Fnord wrote:
nick007 wrote:
I noticed that some of those faces look Asian. Asian is a very popular porn fetish but I don't get the attraction. They're petite but so are lots of non Asian women, & they tend to play schoolgirls & teens but so do lots of non Asian women, & they tend to do lots of cosplay type stuff which I like but otherwise I don't get the attraction. That said I do NOT find em unattractive & I would have nothing against being in a relationship with one if she was a nice person.
In my personal experience, the attraction is more attitudinal than physical -- Asian women seem to be less adversarial and more "partnering" than their American contemporaries, but this should never be mistaken for submissiveness on their part.
1) I've never understood people fetishizing particular racial groups, frankly it seems odd when people do. Personally race isn't a factor for me, I find women of all kinds of skin pigmentation to be attractive. Besides, Asian is a fairly big category. Japanese, Chinese, Filipino, Korean, Indian and so on. To lump them together under a porn category seems disrespectful. Further, race isn't that clear cut, there are plenty of people of mixed decent in the world.
2) Height isn't much of a factor for me either, most women are shorter than me statistically but I don't think I go out looking for petite per say, it just doesn't factor in.
3) Age play is a major turn off personally. I find it off-putting.
4) Generalised statements are probably best avoided.
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29 Nov 2021, 1:47 pm
Porn and sexuality isn't necessarily a reflection of real life. Kinks aren't necessarily rational either. They all have rather different rulesets from normal everyday life. Most important thing to keep in mind is: Were any of the participants harmed? Otherwise, the sensibilities of outsiders is irrelevant.
Also, race-related comments aren't necessarily racist. Many Asian countries, like China, have very different cultures and societal dynamics that result in very real and distinct behaviors and cognitions. Noticing actual trends in geographical and social groups isn't unethical.
That being said, it can be rather important to properly qualify such things to properly distinguish ones comments from racist generalizations and reduce the potential for misunderstanding.
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29 Nov 2021, 2:31 pm
I had a friend who was on the spectrum with an obviously weird fetish for women with two heads or two faces. He'd try to find pics but they were quite rare to find. He got the interest as a child when he saw a distorted image in a magazine.
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29 Nov 2021, 2:41 pm
Maybe he should relocate to 3 mile island or maybe cherynobyl russia.
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30 Nov 2021, 11:04 am
I like eccentric people
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30 Nov 2021, 11:12 am
Tim_Tex wrote:
You forgot Fukushima.
Oh yeah, i remember watching the videos of cars being washed away. That was a earthquake though. It didnt register in my mind as a radiation leak also.
An attraction preference for genetic mutations is highly abnormal.
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30 Nov 2021, 4:34 pm
cyberdad wrote:
theprisoner wrote:
An attraction preference for genetic mutations is highly abnormal.
Correct, because we are biologically programmed to look for "healthy" individuals as mating partners.
Yes, and my tastes are in accordance with evolutionary science. I'm fairly conventional.
Wide hips, (fertile) big chest (for nursing babies) nice smile/white teeth (strong immune system) Hey sounds good to me.
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