Attitude toward caucasian men with non-caucasian women

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I've dated women of various races and nationalities, and I've definitely experienced this reaction from both women and men, both of my race and my girlfriend's.

Your opinions on someone's partner's race, age, or gender are not welcome.

Please, just let people be people.

Quite common here these days. Very high non-white population here from many countries. China, India, Philippines, and many more.

My brothers wife is of Chinese decent. My sisters husband is 1/2 Indigenous 1/2 Scottish. My friends wife is 1/2 Hong Kong Chinese. Another friends wife is from Laos.

Indian populations are mixing some, too, but some hardcore traditional families don’t like their daughters dating white guys and would prefer an Indo-Canadian or even Indian man/arranged marriage, but being the diverse melting pot we are younger generations are more “Westernized,” and marrying for love vs status/money/obligation to please parents etc.

I’m sure there’s still some good ol’ fashioned racism by all sorts of people - like my brothers father in law who doesn’t like any of his son-in-laws because none of the 3 of them are ethnically Chinese. Oh well, your daughters fell in love with different men. Suck it up, old man - it’s a changing world And your daughters have to be happy with their life choices, not you.

But overall it’s just generally accepted that all sorts of people mix here - no big time taboos that are just unheard of or anything.. just specific holdouts that would prefer their daughters marry similar types to their family because that’s the way they’ve always done things for generations. Until they moved to Canada and things changed, suckas.

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It is strange how some families move to the West "for a better life", only to drag along with them the same old prejudices and customs that made life unbearable in their old countries.

Married to an African woman myself. Been to Africa before we had children. Kind of proud to have been to Europe once, South America once, and Africa once.

Of many friends where I live, I have seen Asians married to Whites, Asian Muslims married to Whites, East European Muslims married to Latin American catholics, French married to English (Whites), American married to Canadian (whites) and different nationality Asians marrying each other. I would say the marriage and relationships here are quite diversified. Personally, after relationships with Canadian girls (French and English), I do notice the differences in attitudes and beliefs systems between Canadian and Foreign.

My thoughts.
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Honesty the best policy...NOT.
Okay honesty is generally the best policy, but Honesty can sometimes hurt.
He was just being honest.
Now he could have sugarcoated it.
It's kind of a tough call.
It's rude to say "I think you're ugly. I prefer blonde hair blue eyes."
Which is basically what he said to her.
I don't know how I would handle it that line of questioning.
More like:
"I never been with a Asian woman, this is all new to me, you're very sweet and nice. I'm just warming up to you."
Because thats more diplomatic.
And if she insist "Is it because I'm Asian?"
I would just say it's because "I just don't feel any chemistry between us."
Because again, It's more diplomatic.
No need to bring her genetics into it.



Also.
If she's so sensitive, hows he supposed to know?
Some people don't grow up in well-mannered environments.
Some people come from very course backgrounds , where people speak bluntly.
I myself can speak very bluntly at times.
Seems a culture clash.
Nor just a race thing.
And who you become attracted to, or not.
Shouldn't be held against you.
If he doesn't like her, so be it.
She shouldn't make it a thing where, She's seeking confirmation she's defective.

Reverse it.
Asian woman rejecting a white man, because she only likes Asian men.
IS he going to break down and cry?
No.
He's going to think,
"Okay, she' doesn't like me. It's plain as day. That's her choice. Her preference."
And he will move on.
Or try to change her mind.
Lol.
Either one of those.

That what I think.