Jimbogf wrote:
Infatuation, the set in biological drive to reproduce that floods our minds with neurochemicals. That is a joke. Yet it can't be ignored and can be a royal pain in the ass...
I think real love would be complete compatibility where biological instincts never get in the way. Unconditional love, where conflicts of territory and dominance and physical attractiveness are non-existent. Love is mostly logical. I don't like how the link above just termed this as merely 'attachment'.
I think it's a mistake to separate feeling and instinct from logic and will. When love is under trial, it may be indeed be scraping by on pure logic and/or willpower, but I'd like to think that the most beautiful kind of love is comprised of feelings and logic in perfect cohesion and measure.