What Are Your Biggest Put-Offs?

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My put-offs:

Desperation

Lack of motivation/Having no general plan in life

Immaturity

Boringness

Neediness

Using me for money or anything else

Hah! Ever notice how there are two types of guys:

(1) A guy who can walk around with his shirt off, and it's no big deal;

(2) A guy who walks around with his shirt off, and it's like he's THRUSTING HIS NIPPLES AT YOU.

Ew to the latter!

Don't make fun of the guys that have developed breasts somehow... that's not nice...

FightClubwhat?

I think you're joking, but in case you're not, I should clarify that isn't what I meant.

I'm talking about guys who swagger around with their shirts off as if to say, "Look how well built I am!! !"

I doubt the gynecomastics would do that, if they were brave enough to walk around shirtless in the first place.

How else to discuss possible additions?



Heh. Dancing GETS me drunk.




This pair, together, must be amazing.

Yeah, yeah.

Establish she's into that FIRST.



Yup. Rare, but film-worthy.

Generally, however, the up-side to the rant about money/status/power is knowing the bill's taken care of, so you can guiltlessly have four organic gin martinis, the prime rib, and whatever dessert's on fire that night.

I usually wait until I catch THEM looking.



I can imagine that one might
have to steel oneself to certain
comments, after that much indulgence
however.

But damn. I gotta give up my silly
tastes and go for the loaded types.

1. Men who treat me as if I have the brain power of an ant, and act like they know everything when they don't have a clue.

2. Judgmental or bigoted.

3. Someone who is cruel to animals.

4. Someone who is just plain cruel.

5. Any man who refers to women as a bunch of sl*ts, who*es or any other degrading name...there's the door...don't let it hit you in the *$$.

6. Men who like to get drunk and pick fights...two words...grow up. It may have been cute when you were 18 and trying to prove something to everyone...but at 35 it just becomes old.

7. Lastly, if you want obedience...get a dog.

The ideal would be both at once.

But I'd definitely go for my silly tastes over the loaded ones.

I know what I need; and although I need money, it's a lot less painful to make it myself than to put up with some idiot who's got it.

Can I add one to my list?

* Thinks his car will make up for his deficiencies.

My Big Turn-Offs:{from my experiences with girls}
Arrogance
Being Immature
Being Judgemental
Neediness
Saying a bunch of degrading terms against men or other women
Thinks her sex appeal will make up for her deficiencies
Being too playful
Too conservative
Too religious
Being self-centered

Being stupid. I don't expect everyone to be in mensa, but be able to spell and don't just blink at me when I use words like "pertain".
Being obese. After a point, it's just gluttony. Sorry.
Being closed minded. I don't mind religion, I just mind people who mind that I don't have one.
Being overly controlling of me. Some stuff I'll change because I don't care, but some stuff I won't. Be aware of where the line is.
Addiction to drugs. Use is fine, I know many reasonably adjusted people who recreate with various things, but they're not hocking heirlooms and selling blood for crack. Eww.

And if you can't stand pepperoni pizza, it can only end in tears.

Amen.

I've become accustomed to using small words so that people don't give me "the look". It's a relief to be on WP and be able to use more accurate terms without fear of appearing strange.

Huh?

Judgemental behaviour and not accepting of who and what I am.