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19 Aug 2007, 5:58 pm

michel wrote:
I'm French and Italian, and I love long kissing sessions! But what I like to do might gross some people out (like Mormons for example). I really like to go deep tongue diving and use a lot of saliva.

I like it too (the wet kissing part). However, I didn't think I'd even enjoy it until I tried it. I was dating this girl a while ago. When I kissed her for the first time, I found out that she kissed with a lot of saliva. Much to my surprise, it felt really good, and I found myself getting really turned on.



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19 Aug 2007, 6:05 pm

Oh yeah, it's super hot and so intimate. It's like you're going into someone. Yum.



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19 Aug 2007, 9:42 pm

Tips:
Slightly tilt head to the side!
Close eyes & lips on impact!
Place one arm around the other's waist and slowly pull him/her in!


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23 Aug 2007, 9:24 am

Stay away from her tonsils - you don't want to trigger her gag reflex!



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23 Aug 2007, 2:13 pm

Gah, all this talk about tongue-massage is making me not want to indulge in kissing. I have trouble with casual contact a lot of the time - anything that intimate would freak me out totally, I think...


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23 Aug 2007, 2:20 pm

MrSinister wrote:
Gah, all this talk about tongue-massage is making me not want to indulge in kissing. I have trouble with casual contact a lot of the time - anything that intimate would freak me out totally, I think...


I'm the same. Physical contact freaks me out... especially the stuff I have to initiate.

I just hope that when the time comes the person I am with is understanding and not completely offended by any blunders I make.

Also I am generally clumsy and either too gentle or too forceful when touching people... it's all going to be a big mess.

My only chance is to be with someone who is as clueless as I am, and just make it up as we go along.


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23 Aug 2007, 2:27 pm

michel wrote:
5) Things NOT to do: running circles with your tongue in her mouth, also know as the 'dishwasher', or chewing air, aka 'the goldfish'. Most girls find this a turn-off.


I actually found that method quite calming, and so did she. I prefer a bit more creativity, true, but it still works. As an artist, I often put art into most things I do.


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23 Aug 2007, 2:44 pm

I used to french my wife when she was slightly perturbed at me, when nothing I could say helped. After about five seconds into it, her knees would start to buckle and she'd start breathing deeper and kissing me back more. After about 10 seconds... well, nevermind, it's none of your business. :) Let's just say the results were mutually satisfactory.


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24 Aug 2007, 5:51 am

shopaholic wrote:
Stay away from her tonsils - you don't want to trigger her gag reflex!


Unless you like a bit of
excitement in your kisses.

Mmm...bile.