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28 Aug 2023, 1:35 am

The handbag was given to me second hand about 20 years ago.
It was falling apart even then.


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28 Aug 2023, 1:40 am

When my marriage was falling apart I didn't want to go through with the bother of a divorce.
I was hoping if I waited long enough, he'd die.
That seemed so much easier.


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28 Aug 2023, 1:45 am

I had a bad AIDS scare a few years ago.


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28 Aug 2023, 1:47 am

I'm staunchly pro-choice but if you knock me up I'm keeping it because my choice is no.
You'll have to pay child support in accordance with federal law for 18+ years.


Oh, and I refuse to take the pill or get an IUD so it's all on you bruh.


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28 Aug 2023, 1:50 am

If you try to take a photo I may stab you in the eye with a fork.
Or at least think very stabby thoughts.


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28 Aug 2023, 2:47 pm

That I was a fan of these deceptively adorable critters in middle school 8O
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29 Aug 2023, 12:22 am

I have a large collection of noise filters for video and audio production. :nerdy:


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29 Aug 2023, 5:09 am

Raleigh wrote:
If you try to take a photo I may stab you in the eye with a fork.
Or at least think very stabby thoughts.



And, alas- !
Nor shall he attempt to paint my portrait, or I shall stabbeth him with his easel.


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29 Aug 2023, 8:38 am

I bite my nails, sometimes.

Kind of gross, but it happens.



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29 Aug 2023, 4:19 pm

I'm impotent


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I didn't experience a refractory period until my 20s. :nerdy:


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01 Sep 2023, 7:46 am

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I would never say that I used to be a victim of child abuse, bullying, and verbal assault.


I wouldn't expect anyone to talk about their childhood on a first date. It's a conversation you have eventually but dates are mostly about the present and a little about the future, not about the past.

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I don't wear underwear unless I'm going to a doctor appointment.

I don't wear bras unless it's summer and I'm forced to go outside in daylight.


Your date would probably assume you're a hippie.

IsabellaLinton wrote:
I'm staunchly pro-choice but if you knock me up I'm keeping it because my choice is no. You'll have to pay child support in accordance with federal law for 18+ years.

Oh, and I refuse to take the pill or get an IUD so it's all on you bruh.


"I take no responsibility for birth control even though I'm the one who can get pregnant" seems like the kind of thing you should tell someone.

Just as being adamantly childfree should be communicated early on, because a lot of people really want to have a baby someday.

blitzkrieg wrote:
I bite my nails, sometimes.

Kind of gross, but it happens.


I'm in my 40s. I started that habit as a child and never stopped. It's a nervous habit.



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01 Sep 2023, 8:32 am

Weight Of Memory wrote:
IsabellaLinton wrote:
I'm staunchly pro-choice but if you knock me up I'm keeping it because my choice is no. You'll have to pay child support in accordance with federal law for 18+ years.

Oh, and I refuse to take the pill or get an IUD so it's all on you bruh.


"I take no responsibility for birth control even though I'm the one who can get pregnant" seems like the kind of thing you should tell someone.

Hormonal birth control comes with side effects and risks. Condoms do not. If a guy has a problem with this, he's not dating material.



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01 Sep 2023, 8:44 am

Weight Of Memory wrote:
blitzkrieg wrote:
I bite my nails, sometimes. Kind of gross, but it happens.


I'm in my 40s. I started that habit as a child and never stopped. It's a nervous habit.


Yeah. I am quite an anxious person, sooo..



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01 Sep 2023, 1:24 pm

TwilightPrincess wrote:
Weight Of Memory wrote:
IsabellaLinton wrote:
I'm staunchly pro-choice but if you knock me up I'm keeping it because my choice is no. You'll have to pay child support in accordance with federal law for 18+ years.

Oh, and I refuse to take the pill or get an IUD so it's all on you bruh.


"I take no responsibility for birth control even though I'm the one who can get pregnant" seems like the kind of thing you should tell someone.


Hormonal birth control comes with side effects and risks. Condoms do not. If a guy has a problem with this, he's not dating material.


They're also more reliable than condoms. And there are non-hormonal alternatives like tube-tying.

But the biggest issue is personal responsibility.