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14 Sep 2023, 9:16 pm

Cigalle33 wrote:
I shouldn't feel awkward being in a class with him?
Should I just act cool and ignore him if we are in the same classes?


Be cool, and if he interacts you have no reason to not be friendly.

There's no reason to feel awkward.


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15 Sep 2023, 8:34 am

Cigalle33 wrote:
rse92 wrote:
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rse92 wrote:
Don't grieve this stuff.


Can you elaborate, please?

Thank you


The man denied any interest in you. You never even spoke with him or he with you. He's now two years gone from your life. Don't waste your time grieving over nothing, which is what you had with him. Move on and find someone who is attracted to you.


Thank you for explaining. Makes sense

I might actually see him in a yoga class again if I go back to the same studio, which I want to, not for him but for the yoga.

I shouldn't feel awkward being in a class with him?
Should I just act cool and ignore him if we are in the same classes?


IF you back for a yoga class and IF you see him, go over and introduce yourself to him.

If you are not going to do that, then stop dwelling on this.



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15 Sep 2023, 10:10 am

rse92 wrote:
Cigalle33 wrote:
rse92 wrote:
Cigalle33 wrote:
rse92 wrote:
Don't grieve this stuff.


Can you elaborate, please?

Thank you


The man denied any interest in you. You never even spoke with him or he with you. He's now two years gone from your life. Don't waste your time grieving over nothing, which is what you had with him. Move on and find someone who is attracted to you.


Thank you for explaining. Makes sense

I might actually see him in a yoga class again if I go back to the same studio, which I want to, not for him but for the yoga.

I shouldn't feel awkward being in a class with him?
Should I just act cool and ignore him if we are in the same classes?


IF you back for a yoga class and IF you see him, go over and introduce yourself to him.

If you are not going to do that, then stop dwelling on this.


No, you've misunderstood my question.

I've let go of the romantic notion given that he's rebuffed the opportunity already.

I just meant I get very nervous sometimes and I was asking if I should feel anxious or embarrassed seeing him in a yoga class, or just shrug it off and ignore him.

I'm happy to ignore him given that he's pretended he doesn't know of me



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15 Sep 2023, 12:45 pm

No, you shouldn't be anxious or embarrassed. So don't be.