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10 Nov 2024, 11:50 am

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Because she’s in a relationship with someone else.



So she doesn't give a f**k about me



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10 Nov 2024, 11:51 am

She might view you as a friend.



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10 Nov 2024, 11:54 am

Jamesy wrote:
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Because she’s in a relationship with someone else.



So she doesn't give a f**k about me


Not wanting to be with you as a boyfriend, when she already has a boyfriend, doesn't mean she doesn't care about you.

She probably just views you as a friend and nothing more. It is normal to care about friends.

You sound like you are falling for the first bit of female attention that you are receiving from someone. You need to accept she has a boyfriend and shelf any romantic feelings that you have for her, because as others have said, this whole infatuation could sabotage your friendship with the couple if you are not careful.



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10 Nov 2024, 11:55 am

TwilightPrincess wrote:
She might view you as a friend.



I am going to be single forever :(



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10 Nov 2024, 12:05 pm

Problem is some of those guys I was talking to last night the young lady



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10 Nov 2024, 12:32 pm

35 vs 21 is a huge age difference.



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10 Nov 2024, 12:34 pm

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35 vs 21 is a huge age difference.



I know people in relationships with bigger age gaps



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10 Nov 2024, 12:38 pm

Often the older person has a lot of financial security or a wealth of experience to contribute to the relationship.

The girl who grew up in the house I bought decided that instead of going to college, she'd get married and raise a family. They used her college funds to buy a bigger house!



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10 Nov 2024, 12:44 pm

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I don't think she cares about you in the way you would like her to



Why would that be?


Unfortunately it's the way it is mate

Unrequited love I think they call it


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10 Nov 2024, 12:45 pm

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I don't think she cares about you in the way you would like her to



Why would that be?


Unfortunately it's the way it is mate

Unrequited love I think they call it



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10 Nov 2024, 12:46 pm

I know it sucks


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10 Nov 2024, 12:47 pm

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I know it sucks



How do you know it's completely unrequited? Your not there to see our social interactions



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10 Nov 2024, 12:48 pm

Well I don't know do I but I can only go off what I'm reading from you and I'm matching it to similar experiences of my own but that doesn't make me right


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10 Nov 2024, 12:51 pm

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Well I don't know do I but I can only go off what I'm reading from you and I'm matching it to similar experiences of my own but that doesn't make me right



I am only upset because of what my mates said last night



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10 Nov 2024, 12:54 pm

What did you expect them to say?

I think you put them in a tough spot by asking.



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10 Nov 2024, 12:57 pm

BTDT wrote:
What did you expect them to say?

I think you put them in a tough spot by asking.



Fair enough. They could have been a bit more supportive though