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Yesterday, 5:00 pm

My daughter is 19 and I wouldn't want her hanging out with 35 year old men Jamesy.

Having said that a 19 yr old normie probably already has a lot of experience with men but as we have said a thousand times they have their pick of 18-30 yr old men so they might not mind hanging out with a 27 yr old but draw the line with you. Don't take it personally Jamesy, it's just a fact of life.

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Yesterday, 5:00 pm

Jamesy wrote:

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Yeah true I guess that is a rare case

With that in mind, don't take it too personally if women in their late teens or early 20s don't reciprocate your interest. There might be ones who would, but they're not that common so you should assume a lack of interest and if you find one who's interested, appreciate that as the rare exception.

Well if you think about it 20-25 vs 35 is only a good 10 year age gap.

Is not that massive of a difference in the grand scheme of things.

I think it depends on the person and everyone you meet will have different boundaries about what they consider appropriate. You're more likely to find 25 year olds who might fancy you than 20 year olds. You're even more likely to find 30 year olds who won't think anything odd about dating a 35 year old.

If you find younger people they might only be interested to fulfil a fetish, rather than actually wish to date you.

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Yesterday, 5:05 pm

Problem is many 30-35 year old women are settling down and marrying so my dating options are getting more limited

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Yesterday, 5:09 pm

Jamesy wrote:

Problem is many 30-35 year old women are settling down and marrying so my dating options are getting more limited

And some of them are already getting divorced and available again. Maybe try to find those ones instead.

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Yesterday, 5:12 pm

Jamesy wrote:

Problem is many 30-35 year old women are settling down and marrying so my dating options are getting more limited

19 yr old hot women have even more options.

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Yesterday, 5:14 pm

cyberdora wrote:

Jamesy wrote:

Problem is many 30-35 year old women are settling down and marrying so my dating options are getting more limited

19 yr old hot women have even more options.

Do you think I would have more a chance of dating a 50 year old compared to a 19 year old?

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Yesterday, 5:25 pm

Jamesy wrote:

cyberdora wrote:

Jamesy wrote:

Problem is many 30-35 year old women are settling down and marrying so my dating options are getting more limited

19 yr old hot women have even more options.

Do you think I would have more a chance of dating a 50 year old compared to a 19 year old?

Don't get your hopes up, even "hot" 50 years old have options. You could have a chance with an average/below average 50 year old but that's not the point is it. Why waste the effort. Focus your energy on women your age.

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Yesterday, 5:34 pm

Why you saying average/below average 50 year old woman?

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Today, 4:28 am

Jamesy wrote:

Why you saying average/below average 50 year old woman?

Put it this way, I've seen smoking hot 50 year old women, but they are in demand from older single men whom they generally prefer to me around (cougars are in a minority). Average/below average 50 years olds might give you a chance but if you are exerting an effort to seek a 50 year old woman, you may as well divert that to average women your own age as the odds would be the same.

On the flip side good looking 19 years old's are pie in the sky for a 35 year old.

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Today, 4:49 am

It's really difficult innit all this
It's like a puzzle

I'm thinking that when I was a teenager I did like "the older man"

In this instance jamesy and I hate to say it but you are "the older man"

Don't let that stop you though
You never know you could end up in a relationship with a person with significant daddy issues

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Oh and I would have been a little bit hurt by this as well mate

Sorry this has happened to you man

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This might be a bit off topic, but some years ago there were a couple of women in my town who worked (with others) at a little combination fast food joint and convenience store. (For what it's worth, this place had very good food and wasn't all that expensive. If you wanted a steak, you could buy a steak at the counter and they would cook it for you for no extra charge!)

One of the two women was about 35, single, very nice looking, quite intelligent, and very vivacious. She dated a lot and had a very good time and often told another friend of hers at the store about many of her dates.

The other woman was about 50, married, okay looking, pretty dull, and not at all vivacious. Her husband was equally dull and they rarely, if ever, went out to do anything, but he did have a fairly well paying job in the oil and gas industry. She overheard the first woman talking about her many exciting times and she wanted to have the same good times instead of the boring life she was living and she thought that the key was to be single again even though she did like her husband. She got a divorce and then waited for the fun times to begin. However, the fun times didn't begin.

This was about 30 years go and I don't know if she ever had a date. After all, if all she does is sit around the house, she isn't likely to making men think of asking her out. So she traded a comfortable but somewhat dull marriage for sheer boredom and a far less comfortable lifestyle.

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kokopelli wrote:

She overheard the first woman talking about her many exciting times and she wanted to have the same good times instead of the boring life she was living and she thought that the key was to be single again even though she did like her husband. She got a divorce and then waited for the fun times to begin. However, the fun times didn't begin.

This was about 30 years go and I don't know if she ever had a date. After all, if all she does is sit around the house, she isn't likely to making men think of asking her out. So she traded a comfortable but somewhat dull marriage for sheer boredom and a far less comfortable lifestyle.

So by the time anyone (men or women) hit 50, they often become more fixed in their ways. the woman in this case was probably liking the idea of a toy boy but didn't have the energy or motivation to go to the local meat market and compete with 20-30 somethings

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8 minutes ago

This 43 year old nice looking blonde sat on my knee recently when there were no available seats

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