Unless you have a partner Englishwolf, or are able to get one quite easily, I would say you are in a very enviable position.
Those of us who will never be able to get a partner, but have the all obsessing, constant desire that spoils all enjoyment of the other things in life, sort of like if your starving you wont be appretiating that marvolous sun set, you will be thinking about food.
How I long for the pre-pubescent days when you could enjoy life before the constant desire for sex made you permanantly distracted from anything else.
Bashing the Bishop can give you a few hours respite from this never-ending want but you then have the guilt.