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calandale
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16 Sep 2007, 10:23 pm

wsmac wrote:
Brian, don't mind Calandale too much.


I should be minded TERRIBLY much. :P
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If you really don't get what he was saying, it's like this...
The OP mentions cuddling and hair... which are two things that mean SEX to Calandale


Hey, no!

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(wait... doesn't everything? :wink: ),


Well, maybe.
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So naturally (in the vein of this thread), Calandale figured your male 'member' must be awful long to connect with someone 5ft. away!


Not in the least. I can't see how one can
have sex, if they are only comfortable
with people 5 feet away. Now, if there's
some sort of special exemption, why not
for cuddling too?

I can't stand people I don't feel something
for that close, but once I care, 'tis nice to
touch. Or whatever.


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Either that... or MY mind's in the gutter! 8O


There are people who DON'T have their mind in the gutter?



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16 Sep 2007, 10:30 pm

Calandale


Thanks :P


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16 Sep 2007, 10:30 pm

Wear a doo-rag or have more sex.
Done.
Next topic.



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17 Sep 2007, 9:38 am

Those who know my story know this: I LOVE cuddling!

::apologizes for spamming::



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17 Sep 2007, 5:24 pm

Skotch wrote:
google didn't have the answer, so im turning to you WP

do men who have AS and sensory disorders find cuddling uncomfortable? i have very straw like hair, what should i do to make it very comfortable for both of us?


Heh, i honestly did not think it was a sensory issue, but personally I cant stand cuddling, and never have, hell I cant even handel a simple hug, and I think my sensory issues are very mild.


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18 Sep 2007, 12:04 pm

I'd say it varies person to person. Me personally I don't mind cuddling at all, though that might be because I haven't really cuddled with someone before. Anyways I'd say the best course of action would be to simple ask your partner/friend what he likes and or if you're making him uncomfortable.

Good communication is key in starting a relationship. Don't feel afraid to ask him questions.



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18 Sep 2007, 12:15 pm

I like to give cuddles and my girlfriend likes to receive them.

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