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calandale
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20 Sep 2007, 2:29 am

She too, happens to be the right
age though. But the lightning thing -
SS and all. Wow.

I still don't believe it.



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20 Sep 2007, 8:52 am

calandale wrote:
I've grown rather fond of you,
actually. Once I figured that the
88 was your birth year, and not
something more sinister. :P

:lol: :lol: Ha! Once again youve made my morning. Figured someone would think something like that. Took me a second to figure out Ana was talking about the "social services" when she told me she was going to see the "SS". :lol:



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20 Sep 2007, 8:57 am

calandale wrote:
She too, happens to be the right
age though. But the lightning thing -
SS and all. Wow.

I still don't believe it.

I know, check out her avatar too. Doesnt make sense.

Also, I cant believe I wrote all that last night :? What was I thinking.



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20 Sep 2007, 9:21 am

We hurt ourselves by pondering the worst, especially when there is no evidence for it. Viewing the world with a clear mind, accepting events as they are without over-reacting, being indifferent to those events get us by.



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20 Sep 2007, 9:42 am

double post



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20 Sep 2007, 9:50 am

Lol thats so full of crap :P



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20 Sep 2007, 3:03 pm

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Also, I cant believe I wrote all that last night :? What was I thinking.


From the heart.



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20 Sep 2007, 4:20 pm

OMG, and in one of my posts I mentioned love and respect. I didn't know how better to explain what I needed though! :oops:



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20 Sep 2007, 4:20 pm

OMG, and in one of my posts I mentioned love and respect. I didn't know how better to explain what I needed though! :oops:



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20 Sep 2007, 7:37 pm

Umm.. What are you talking about?



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20 Sep 2007, 7:42 pm

Probably just me using voodoo to post
s**t in her name. :P



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20 Sep 2007, 7:44 pm

Lol.. Was that really you?



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20 Sep 2007, 8:08 pm

How should I know?
I just trust what others
perceive that I've done.

s**t happens, people die,
I take the blame. 'Tis easy
enough.



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22 Sep 2007, 12:43 pm

No; that was me. LOL. The Aryan Brotherhood value Love And Respect. And the SS (Gestapo) thing besides... I didn't want people to get the wrong impression!



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22 Sep 2007, 1:17 pm

U88, its tricky. Everyone has different tools and strengths that aid them in assessing the reality around them. This leads some people to be more rose-colored-glasses sorts, leads others to be more analytical, and sometimes that analytical side can cause depression or some negative aspects to thinking just because you'd rather engage reality for what it is rather than gloss it over (sometimes you feel you need to just to cope adequately).

I think what bothers me more than anything is just the conformity thought-policing bit that tends to happen not so much by most people in particular but its kind of a collective effect, kinda like if your too honest with yourself about things that if you don't believe in discriminating positive or negative and end up veering a bit toward the dark side that you don't deserve the same things other people do because your making a disreputable choice. We all built differently and unless your harming someone with it I think people just need to deal with the fact that no everyone's like them or wants to be, its not something that values a person's worth or common sense really.



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22 Sep 2007, 1:19 pm

gwenevyn wrote:
It's hard to realize that we don't measure up to someone's standards... but just remember that those standards are not linear. (Linear being, the person who rejects you wants an 88 or above and you only score 72.) It's not a matter of you being not good enough. It's just two shapes, encountering one another in a chance collision in outer space... and it's really no wonder when those random shapes happen not to be corresponding.


You know, I really wish more people listened to their own hearts on that level. When people do get real hung up on image first, care more about the other person being a trophy wife or husband, and unfortunately from society's pressures it happens a lot; they're really denying their own happiness.