Another positive NT experience (with a couple of girls)

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18 Oct 2007, 12:08 pm

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2) I'm not looking for a girlfriend with a "Hooters" t-shirt, which this girl was wearing.


It's likely that she has other shirts. She may even wear a different shirt tomorrow.

Good thinking.

I know what you mean about temperamental Ragtime, I've lived with greys before. One of them bit everybody except my dad. Well she bit him if someone’s was getting more attention and also affectionately nibbled. On the other hand they can be a cute as well.

I actually tried what you did with a girl. I don't think it when down well. I gave the girl Nellie and the girl went a bit quiet and rigid. It didn't click that she wasn't enjoying it or scared for a little while. I did get her to whistle a bit to Nellie. But in the end Nellie got bored with her so I put her back in her cage (Nellie not the girl).

Then again this girl was very confusing for an aspie. I never intended to go to my house. This was before I knew how to make friends a couple of years ago and was desperately trying with this girl and also fancied her a little. We had been playing tennis because I met her at a badminton club and was inviting her to things like tennis because that was the best I could think of. So after I thought we agree to go for some refreshments, so was driving near my house and mentioned it and just as we were about to pass my house she said 'No! I mean, can we go to you house?' So I said yeh. Then I showed her Nellie which I probably should have left in the cage. Anyway she did many confusing things a lot of the time. I thought she was mostly rejecting me then out of the blue she would say something like 'Would you like to go swimming one time with me?' I have to admit I was taken back. It was a little 'different' but after a long pause I said 'Yeh OK'. Well she was waiting my time. She didn't want to go swimming with me, every time I mentioned it afterwards she just brushed it off. I cut her out of my life soon after this. I don’t know what I saw in her she was horrible to me and she wasn’t particularly smart come to think of it nor did we have anything in common.



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18 Oct 2007, 4:37 pm

Ya, I've had experiences with girls acting bizarre like that. It's like the mutual influence of two strong sex drives draws only a fine line between love and hate, or at least between like and dislike. I feel as if I have two powerful-drug generators constantly pumping heavy doses of testosterone into my system 24 hours per day, while I'm being asked: "Now, make sound decisions concerning women." In this perpetual drug-induced haze, I'm like, "Yeah, right!! I'll be lucky to ward off insanity!"

You might as well be trying to balance on a balancing beam with a valium I.V. attached to you.


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18 Oct 2007, 4:49 pm

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Please... save photos like that for the Adult section.

Yeah, hot pics in the adult section please, I think you (geek) may be free to post more there :P


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18 Oct 2007, 5:15 pm

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Please... save photos like that for the Adult section.

Yeah, hot pics in the adult section please, I think you (geek) may be free to post more there :P


:?: I didn't think that kissing was deemed obscene by anyone but Bollywood censors.



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18 Oct 2007, 6:55 pm

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:?: I didn't think that kissing was deemed obscene by anyone but Bollywood censors.

Didn't mean to imply censorhip, I was actually kidding with a suggestion of posting more like this, but in the adult section :P
I was joking of course, I am not really asking for more.

I'm not the one to say if this is appropriate or not, I don't know how everyone else feel about this, probably is not a big deal. Although this seems to go somewhere else worth of a PPR discussion perhaps.

Taking Ragtime's thread somewhere else, sorry about that :P


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18 Oct 2007, 11:02 pm

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:?: I didn't think that kissing was deemed obscene by anyone but Bollywood censors.


Oh don't be faux-naif, geek; you know perfectly well Raggy's just being lesbophobic.



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18 Oct 2007, 11:04 pm

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So, to all Aspie guys out there: your best chance with NT girls is when they catch you in one of your areas of expertise -- in other words, when you briefly appear to be NT yourself. When this girl happened to first glance at me and Chloe was when I was holding her up and letting her flap her wings wildly. So, the girl just happened to look over during a Kodak moment, and decided to investigate. One can't easily set up such moments with forethought, so, rather, when they naturally occur, I recommend just rolling with the initial positive impression you've inadvertently made, and trying to carry it off with your best acting skills. As if you're just "Mr. Kodak Moment". 'Cause, I mean, what's courtship without acting?


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19 Oct 2007, 12:23 am

juliekitty wrote:
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:?: I didn't think that kissing was deemed obscene by anyone but Bollywood censors.

Oh don't be faux-naif, geek; you know perfectly well Raggy's just being lesbophobic.


Sorry, I was having an NT moment. :oops:



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19 Oct 2007, 5:52 am

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Oh don't be faux-naif, geek; you know perfectly well Raggy's just being lesbophobic.


Guess I'm lesbophilic then.
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tonight, but they let me keep
dancing. Ah well.



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19 Oct 2007, 12:51 pm

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Ya, I've had experiences with girls acting bizarre like that. It's like the mutual influence of two strong sex drives draws only a fine line between love and hate, or at least between like and dislike. I feel as if I have two powerful-drug generators constantly pumping heavy doses of testosterone into my system 24 hours per day, while I'm being asked: "Now, make sound decisions concerning women." In this perpetual drug-induced haze, I'm like, "Yeah, right!! I'll be lucky to ward off insanity!"

You might as well be trying to balance on a balancing beam with a valium I.V. attached to you.

I'm not sure if I had any sexual effect on her. I sort of cut her out because I felt she was sort of using me to get lifts to badminton. It seemed that way anyway. I don't really understand why she asked to go to my home but I have a feel it had more to do with she didn't want to be seen out with me or something, I doubt seriously there was anyone from badminton around though. She was always changing the plan like that. Another weird thing is once I was hailing a taxi and she said 'No! Don’t do it like that'. Apparently sticking your thumb out to hail a taxi is not cool. I asked her to show me how to do it right. Apparently you’re supposed to hail a taxi like the queen with a limp wrist.



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19 Oct 2007, 3:22 pm

juliekitty wrote:
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:?: I didn't think that kissing was deemed obscene by anyone but Bollywood censors.


Oh don't be faux-naif, geek; you know perfectly well Raggy's just being lesbophobic.

Pretty much that was the case, if it was a heterosexual couple kissing, he probably wouldn't have made any complain at all.


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19 Oct 2007, 6:18 pm

Or a pair of guys.



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20 Oct 2007, 3:15 am

greenblue wrote:
juliekitty wrote:
geek wrote:
:?: I didn't think that kissing was deemed obscene by anyone but Bollywood censors.


Oh don't be faux-naif, geek; you know perfectly well Raggy's just being lesbophobic.

Pretty much that was the case, if it was a heterosexual couple kissing, he probably wouldn't have made any complain at all.


i though raggy had "seasoned" appreciation for homo action


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21 Oct 2007, 1:28 pm

:o What is going on here? I just met my 2nd pair of girls while outside with my parrot. These were cute like the others, and nice, but this pair is probably lesbian, because they drive a pickup truck together everywhere they go, live together and do *everything together (*I'm assuming; that's how it seems anyway).

There was another lesbian couple who lived nextdoor about a year ago -- they were really obvious about it: every time the cute one said hi to me, the ugly one glared threateningly at me.
Is my apartment complex "Lesbo Central" or something?

Also, weirdly, this second pair of girls live either right next door to the pair I met last week, or in the same apartment. Hmmm, FOUR lesbians living together? Well, the pair I met last week, the ones I started this thread about, could've been bi, since they seemed "together", but not lesbian since one of them was interested in me (the one with the "Hooters" shirt).


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