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calandale
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18 Oct 2007, 5:34 pm

It's the damned spiders.
They suck me in my sleep.

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18 Oct 2007, 5:48 pm

calandale wrote:

It's the damned spiders.
They suck me in my sleep.

How dare you make such libellous remarks!?! :evil:

Spiders are quite happy being spiders they do not need you. Are you not happy with your geese?

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18 Oct 2007, 6:54 pm

I've got bite marks all over.
They seem to want me, even
if they don't NEED me.

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19 Oct 2007, 8:20 am

LePetitPrince wrote:

^^ sometimes what you believe is not real and what you see may hide many deep secrets that you are not even aware of it .

And sometimes people seize onto some half-hearted theory and refuse all evidence to the contrary for unknown and rather pointless reasons; being wrong gets you no where. Which is a nifty trick, considering there's no evidence that all male male/female friendships must have a sexual tone in the first place.

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19 Oct 2007, 3:51 pm

calandale wrote:

LePetitPrince wrote:

^^ sometimes what you believe is not real and what you see may hide many deep secrets that you are not even aware of it .

Oh oh. I'm getting The Sex, and not even aware of it?

sex starts in the mind

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19 Oct 2007, 7:24 pm

Erm... I have plenty of female friends. Only with one or two has my mind decided to torment me with the desire to take it further.

Theory = debunked.

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20 Oct 2007, 4:47 am

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Erm... I have plenty of female friends. Only with one or two has my mind decided to torment me with the desire to take it further.
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...and i am sure that these 2 in your mind are much closer 'friends' than the other female friends , no?you find these 2 attractive , aren't you? This is exactly why I don't blve in the friendship between opposite sexes. I wonder how much close you can be a friend with a girl without developing any emotional attachment.

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21 Oct 2007, 4:19 am

LePetitPrince wrote:

Macallan wrote:

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pure friendship between adult males and females doesn't exist ....how many times i must repeat that?

Well, I guess I'm the exception which proves your rule

My closest friend is an NT married bloke - we've been friends for 17 years now with no sex or gender issues getting in the way. He's like my brother, without the teasing and annoying fraternal behaviour

as i said in other threads ...."...except childhood friendships", only in case of childhood friendship between the 2 genders succeeds.

Sorry to totally screw your theory, but I met my friend at a party when I was 23 and he was 21. I have no friends from my childhood.

I think you're getting emotional attachment mixed up with sex. It is perfectly possible to feel an emotional attachment to a good friend (insomuch as you love spending time with them, you are concerned for their wellbeing, and what happens to them matters to you), without wanting to get into their pants.

My friend and I have both had sexual relationships with other people during our friendship (he's now happily married) without detrimental effect to our friendship. We really are more like a pretty close brother and sister, without shared genes and family history.

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21 Oct 2007, 4:39 am

/ back to topic.

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21 Oct 2007, 4:47 am

Macallan wrote:

I think you're getting emotional attachment mixed up with sex. It is perfectly possible to feel an emotional attachment to a good friend (insomuch as you love spending time with them, you are concerned for their wellbeing, and what happens to them matters to you), without wanting to get into their pants.

Yeah. I don't think that I'd consider someone
a friend WITHOUT the emotional attachment.

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