long distance dating

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Just got out of a long distance relationship at the beginning of last month. Its Very difficult and the only way it can work AFAIC is to meet in person and if you guys like each other than one has to make the effort to relocate(maybe both can relocate to a new common location, who knows). Ive nearly given up with that and am trying to find people who live within driving distance. But its very hard to do that online ya know.

I would be willing to meet someone in person, but nobody wants to meet me.

Tim

girls always try to hook up with this player online some even start rumors saying i love them, but thats never the case.

Richard loves me.

its not you, its your talking abilities that i am in love with. they are so elegant

I tried a long distance relationship once, it didnt work out unfortch But we had loads in common, but she lived 4 hours away, and we could only see each other a couple of times over the summer.

Personally, I think long distance relationships are a bad idea unless you've already established a fairly long term relationship with the person and then they move. I know a lot of people here do it with people they've met online but as you said, it's easy enough for someone to hide their true self in person... It's hard enough for me to trust someone as it is.

I did it. It worked out fantastic. There were some tough times, but all worth it in the grand scheme of things. We met online, by accident researching ocd. He knew someone with and they thought that is what my daughter had. I messaged him privately and it continued, off the forum all day, everyday for many, many months until he hopped on a plane, travelling from England to Canada. From that point on, we saw each other every 8-10 weeks until he finally moved to Canada. We now have a beautiful biological daughter and foster son. We plan to marry in Europe next summer and really could not be more compatible.

IT IS POSSIBLE~given the right circumstances and the right people. We balanced each other out and had a lot of fun. If ever we went back in time, I wouldn't change a thing. We really did have to get creative and find ways to keep our sanity at times, but really great experiences.

I am usually the first to make bad decisions. I wont lie, but in this particular case I knew he was very sincere.

I say, we only have this one chance at this life, so live it!!