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BeanSprout
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23 Oct 2007, 1:56 pm

im not so sure english isnt my first labguage



shopaholic
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23 Oct 2007, 3:22 pm

Did you tell her you were a bad guy? Or did someone else tell her?

Sounds to me like she likes you anyway.



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23 Oct 2007, 3:43 pm

^^ didn't tell her such thing and i doubt that she knows someone who knows me.



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23 Oct 2007, 4:08 pm

She's just negging you. That is, giving a compliment that sounds sort of negative in order to raise questions in your mind - effective for ensuring you spend some time thinking about her. Clearly, it has worked.

I was looking for that dating site I was looking at earlier - I've been trying to figure out how to act as close to NT as possible once I'm out in the dating scene - but I don't seem to find it. Here's another example from a straight dating site sosuave.

"Hey, I like that outfit. **pause for her response** Yeah, my (mother/aunt/grandmother) has one just like it!" This one is a classic."



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23 Oct 2007, 6:05 pm

It is sort of a back handed compliment though. :!:



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24 Oct 2007, 2:20 pm

But seeing there is a thread on this comment...clearly the compliment worked :D