Lust WHo Needs It

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I don't think lust is a negative thing. If anything it's the predecessor to love. You don't "fall in love" you "fall in lust" and than perhaps when you actually get to know the person lust turns into admiration which than of course can turn into love.

I think as much as people deny it. There is no getting past sexual energy. You either have it in the beginning with your person of interest or you don't have it at all.

At this point in my life i'm just looking for a human blanket at night. Lust comes second.

I'm over this topic now

Well i made this topic when i was mad cause my last relationship was ruined by it now i don't realy care and thats what i ment

I tend to view lust and love on a spectrum, just like Asperger's and Autism are on a spectrum. On one end is lust, the sexual need for a being to serve their own ends and/or to procreate. There's no emotional attachment involved. It's pretty much business as usual. On the other end of the spectrum is love, the strong emotional attraction to someone else in which the other person shares the same attraction. I normally define love in this sense as being unconditional, that no matter what happens, what is done, and so on, both people will love each other, no matter what, and can overcome pretty much anything.

I've found that for most people, it's harder to achieve true, unconditional love than it is to find pure lust. I suppose that's because it's easier for most of us to give into our base drives and instincts than to hold them off and control them. Me? No lust for me. I want unconditional love. That's pretty much all I want. I don't have much of a drive for sex. I don't want sex, in all honesty. My hand serves its purpose just fine in that regard.