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moo_cow
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06 Nov 2007, 12:26 pm

You could try a dating partner with Myspace. Does anyone know if that is effective?



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06 Nov 2007, 7:55 pm

I'd think you'd have better luck on myspace than here, yeah.

Also, there's aspieaffection.com if you don't know about that (and even if you do).



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06 Nov 2007, 8:02 pm

Tell them you got a 3.8-3.9 GPA in Computer Science.

Its is bound to attract someone. :X



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06 Nov 2007, 11:27 pm

juliekitty wrote:
I'd think you'd have better luck on myspace than here, yeah.

Also, there's aspieaffection.com if you don't know about that (and even if you do).


Interesting. I had no idea there was a dating website just for AS people. Does it cost money?



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06 Nov 2007, 11:53 pm

Mw99 wrote:
Triangular_Trees wrote:
Sorry, I've got one.

But a word of advice - describe yourself a bit, invite people to chat with you online, then develop your relationship from a friendship you've developed there


I'm an aspie, socially inept, not overly good looking but not aspie looking either. I'm not known for being a "fun" person to hang out with. I don't know how to make small talk. Mid twenties.

I like to tell it like it is and I don't care how pathetic I sound and if you don't like the type of person I've described it's obvious you and I wouldn't get along.

The pros are that I won't mistreat you and I will accept you/do my best to accept you in spite of your aspergean flaws. I'll never make fun of you and I won't make you feel inappropriate. I'll listen to your problems and do my best to help you.


The best tip I can give you is start with telling your positive aspects before you tell your negative ones.
And always try to give a positive spin to anything that could be called negative.
Not being a fun smalltalking person could be changed into saying you are a serious person.

A lot of people, not only NT's, look at how you present yourself.
Most people don't like a person who doesn't even like himself :wink: