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10 Nov 2007, 4:41 pm

High school girls don't usually do stuff like that to get money. That kind of evil thinking pops up at a later age. They do stuff like that to increase their popularity by making someone else look bad. She might be trying to impress some as*hole guy or just the other brats in her group.

Even if she's being serious, stay the hell away from her. God only knows what nasty diseases she has with an attitude like that. Most girls with a crush play the "shy, coy, but flirtatious" role, not the "I'm the whore of Babylon and want to throw you down on the floor right now" role.



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10 Nov 2007, 4:41 pm

Praetor2379, sorry if I'm quite direct, but are you overweight while this girl is a skinny "babe"? Or are you "obviously" a nerd?



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10 Nov 2007, 5:23 pm

^ No i am not overweight. I am average weight. Infact, now that you bring it up she herself is fat. She does think I am smart but I have never been described as a nerd by classmates ever in my entire life.


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10 Nov 2007, 5:44 pm

Praetor2379 wrote:
^ No i am not overweight. I am average weight. Infact, now that you bring it up she herself is fat. She does think I am smart but I have never been described as a nerd by classmates ever in my entire life.


Sorry if I offended you. Maybe this girl is trying to bully you in order to impress her own bullies.



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10 Nov 2007, 7:30 pm

It sounds to me like she is teasing you.

Maybe if you go ahead and agree to kiss her, she will be satisfied that she has teased you enough and then leave you alone.

It is just an idea.

Maybe by playing along with her joke for a bit, rather than letting her know that her joke upsets you (which may be what she wants to accomplish), it may work out.



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10 Nov 2007, 8:26 pm

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On Wednesday I met a girl who quickly began to talk to me. She began by asking me if I thought she was attractive. And I asked her why. She responded by saying she wanted to go out with me, but when I said she didn't know me (as she said that within ten minutes of me meeting her) she said that's why we should go out so she can get to know me better. From there she asked me to draw fallic symbols on a sheet of paper. She also asked me if I wanted a blowjob from her and showed me a condom wrapper. I asked her why she was asking me these questions and she responded by saying she wanted to have sex with me. She kept asking me if I wanted a kiss from her and I said no. Since I have never met her i thought at first that it was just a joke. But this line of questioning has continued for three days and it is making me unconfortable. Just today she kisses the window that I was sitting next to (she was outside and I was inside) then entered the building I was in and asked me If I wanted to kiss. I said no. What's up with this situation, and how do I deal with it. Should I ignore or tell her if it continuesd Ill have to report her to the office?


Tell her that she is acting like a little good-for-nothing whore and then say goodbye and walkaway. You don't need to put up with that kind of stuff.

And if she is just joking around do to her what she fears most. Public harassment.



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11 Nov 2007, 8:20 am

Praetor2379 wrote:
^ No i am not overweight. I am average weight. Infact, now that you bring it up she herself is fat. She does think I am smart but I have never been described as a nerd by classmates ever in my entire life.
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you should say this detail before , it changes everything .
This girl is a desperate fat girl .



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11 Nov 2007, 8:36 am

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Praetor2379 wrote:
^ No i am not overweight. I am average weight. Infact, now that you bring it up she herself is fat. She does think I am smart but I have never been described as a nerd by classmates ever in my entire life.
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you should say this detail before , it changes everything .
This girl is a desperate fat girl .


i disagree. her advances were rejected, but she kept on doing it. a desperate fat girl could dress like a slut, go to a nightclub, hit on guys (which she obviously has no problem doing) and somebody would have her.
To me, it seems she is either mentally ill or up to something bad, and I think in either case he should report her.


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11 Nov 2007, 10:20 am

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High school girls don't usually do stuff like that to get money. That kind of evil thinking pops up at a later age. They do stuff like that to increase their popularity by making someone else look bad.


When I was in 7th grade, this pair of girls in my class started openly calling me their "studmuffin". Despite their sweet tones, I knew they were kidding. I just didn't know why. Looking back, they were probably trying to 'get a rise' out of me, and thus embarrass me. Whatever!

I took advantage of their perpetually-nice act by playfully tossing insults their way. They'd look offended for a second, and then go right back to describing what they'd like to do with me. They did this for days, and even when they weren't both there. Finally I shut down one girl, whose last name was Burden, by playing on that. Rolling my eyes, I said to the entire class, "Talk about a Burden!" She never flirted with me again. 8)



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12 Nov 2007, 6:58 am

LePetitPrince wrote:
Praetor2379 wrote:
^ No i am not overweight. I am average weight. Infact, now that you bring it up she herself is fat. She does think I am smart but I have never been described as a nerd by classmates ever in my entire life.
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you should say this detail before , it changes everything .
This girl is a desperate fat girl .
It's sad really but getting mixed up with her would be an extremely bad idea.


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12 Nov 2007, 1:59 pm

I knew closely 3 overweighted girls in different stages of my life but , the 3 of them had 1 thing in common that didn't exist in thin girls : they were all the most openly honest (about their fantasies) girls i've ever met, they always loved to talk about their fantasies and the details about their solo sexual habits ie:masturbation and porn. Only one of them had a bf for a very short time and was just an online relation.

Sometimes I felt that they were trying to hit on me about these stories but never been attracted to any of them (because they are overweighted and i am thin).
It seems that overweighted girls develop more sexual fantasies in their heads much more than the regular girls because they don't get bfs easily in real life , so they feel desperate and this lead them to have more sexual fantasies . It's the same case with us , the male aspies , don't you think so? :roll:

When i read the initial post I thought that this girl is another 'babe' who's trying to make fun of an 'unpopular' guy ....but after reading the word 'fat' I realized that this is not the case .
I highly doubt that a fat girl would try to make a conspiracy with bullies against you , since fat girls are classic victims of bullies . Just reject her but I don't think that she deserve to be reported.



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12 Nov 2007, 4:58 pm

Maybe it's that only 2 girls have ever talked to me about their sexual fantasies/sex life (even though I have lived in the US and Britain): my ex-gf and and a 'girlfriend' I had when I was 12. None of my female friends/acquaintances have ever talked about their sex lives with me (though sometimes they talk about it with others). Having said that, I still think a fat girl could still dress as a slut, go to a club and hit on a guy too drunk to notice anything other than her femaleness, or a fat guy, or a desperate guy. Ordinary guys, if drunk enough, will have sex with women they wouldn't consider when sober. for that matter she could look online for guys that like fat chicks, or at least don't mind; we all know what the male-to-female ratio is like on online sites, so 'i'm a fat, horny chick looking for hot fun' would definitely get replies (she seems to be looking for just sex, and is evidently not shy). For her to persist with the same guy after he has rejected her seems to me to be something more than desperation, why doesn't she just hit on someone else?


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12 Nov 2007, 5:15 pm

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For her to persist with the same guy after he has rejected her seems to me to be something more than desperation, why doesn't she just hit on someone else?

In the given scenario, the situation is completely different, regardless of how a girl looks. She's not hitting on him to get romantic attention, she's just hitting on him to make him feel annoyed and miserable. Or maybe she has no malicious intentions herself, but she's doing it because her friends told her to hit on the guy, for the purpose of making him feel bad.



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12 Nov 2007, 5:47 pm

Either playing or she's serious. You decide.


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12 Nov 2007, 5:53 pm

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12 Nov 2007, 6:29 pm

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Tell your entire school and hometown about it and she's going to be the local slut for the rest of her life.


um no......... but I agree with pretty much everyone else, tell her firmly that you are not interested.


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