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23 Nov 2007, 9:18 am

I love jerks. They are the greatest thing ever. Sometimes you just need someone to shove you around. Tell you how awful you are and someone who will cheat on you. Kick you, slap you and pull your hair and make you eat dirt till you puke.

All women love jerks. We are all the same. You can't tell one female from the next. We all dress the same, all love to go shopping, hate science, hate computers, hate music unless it's top 40 and love hair extensions. We, I feel I can speak for all women since we all are alike and I am female, we all require roses, candlelit dinners, small talk and get very aggrivated when you don't listen to gossip. The nerve of you. How dare you not pay attention to such big outstanding news.

Don't you know that gossip is more important than the war? We all will then flip our hair and roll our eyes once telling you to get with the program.


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23 Nov 2007, 10:26 am

^^ LMAO :lol:



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23 Nov 2007, 10:34 am

Kitsy wrote:
I love jerks. They are the greatest thing ever. Sometimes you just need someone to shove you around. Tell you how awful you are and someone who will cheat on you. Kick you, slap you and pull your hair and make you eat dirt till you puke.

All women love jerks. We are all the same. You can't tell one female from the next. We all dress the same, all love to go shopping, hate science, hate computers, hate music unless it's top 40 and love hair extensions. We, I feel I can speak for all women since we all are alike and I am female, we all require roses, candlelit dinners, small talk and get very aggrivated when you don't listen to gossip. The nerve of you. How dare you not pay attention to such big outstanding news.

Don't you know that gossip is more important than the war? We all will then flip our hair and roll our eyes once telling you to get with the program.


:lol: :lol: Nice!!


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23 Nov 2007, 10:35 am

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23 Nov 2007, 10:39 am

Women don't really like jerks ....women like 'Masculine guys' ,Masculine guys' can be nice or jerks ...these ones are usually confident and have an aggressive personality but not necessary in a bad way.
effeminate guys can be jerks too but won't be liked by girls so much , not as a bf at least ....a jerk is the guy who mistreats/cheats on /deceives women and no normal woman would accept that .
Of course, a lot of girls may fall for jerks since a lot jerks are masculine ...but it's for their masculinity they fall for and for their jerkiness .



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23 Nov 2007, 11:07 am

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I've always been attracted to the quieter, good guys. However, I end up with the jerks because I am quiet and can't get the nice guys attention. The jerks tend to find me.
That's what happened a fair bit when I was younger.


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23 Nov 2007, 11:26 am

Pandora wrote:
blessedmom wrote:
I've always been attracted to the quieter, good guys. However, I end up with the jerks because I am quiet and can't get the nice guys attention. The jerks tend to find me.
That's what happened a fair bit when I was younger.


Unfortunately, I'm no longer "younger". It's taken 39 years to figure this out. :roll: :lol:


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23 Nov 2007, 11:37 am

pandabear wrote:
There is only one woman in the world. One woman, with many faces.
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shh...don't tell Madonna. She'll get pissed.


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23 Nov 2007, 11:46 am

LePetitPrince wrote:
Women don't really like jerks ....women like 'Masculine guys' ,Masculine guys' can be nice or jerks ...these ones are usually confident and have an aggressive personality but not necessary in a bad way.
effeminate guys can be jerks too but won't be liked by girls so much , not as a bf at least ....a jerk is the guy who mistreats/cheats on /deceives women and no normal woman would accept that .
Of course, a lot of girls may fall for jerks since a lot jerks are masculine ...but it's for their masculinity they fall for and for their jerkiness .


I agree.


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23 Nov 2007, 12:37 pm

How about the Wiggles? When I brought them up in the Sexiest Woman thread, some women seemed to have thought that I was joking. But I regard them as very polite, kind, courteous, handsome, etc. If I were a woman, I think that these would be the type of men that I would find most desireable.

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23 Nov 2007, 12:47 pm

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How about the Wiggles? When I brought them up in the Sexiest Woman thread, some women seemed to have thought that I was joking. But I regard them as very polite, kind, courteous, handsome, etc. If I were a woman, I think that these would be the type of men that I would find most desireable.

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And I would agree with you whole-heartedly. :wink:


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23 Nov 2007, 3:45 pm

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Mw99, I assume you think you're not a "jerk". With all due respect, are you really sure you don't come across that way?


I don't rule out the possiblity that I come across as an undesirable jerk.



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23 Nov 2007, 6:19 pm

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Some aspy women are so innocent that I think it's easier for a lying piece of garbage to exploit them.


Same could be said for Aspie Men. Aspies in general are frequently targeted by dishonest, manipulative people when it comes to romance because such people are seen as easy to exploit. NO WONDER there's so much resentment towards the opposite sex here!
We seem to get the worst kind of people gravitating to us! :evil: Last 2 "relationships" I had involved highly manipulative women.



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23 Nov 2007, 6:20 pm

NO! I've been bullied by jerks, all through school.


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23 Nov 2007, 6:34 pm

LePetitPrince wrote:
Women don't really like jerks ....women like 'Masculine guys' ,Masculine guys' can be nice or jerks ...these ones are usually confident and have an aggressive personality but not necessary in a bad way.
effeminate guys can be jerks too but won't be liked by girls so much , not as a bf at least ....a jerk is the guy who mistreats/cheats on /deceives women and no normal woman would accept that .
Of course, a lot of girls may fall for jerks since a lot jerks are masculine ...but it's for their masculinity they fall for and for their jerkiness .


Nope, wrong. Androgynous for me. And according to my bisexual transvestite father, it is men who like masculine men. Women like girly men. His opinion; not mine, but still.

(and still a broad generalization; therefore completely incorrect.)


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23 Nov 2007, 6:40 pm

Ziyaret wrote:
Same could be said for Aspie Men. Aspies in general are frequently targeted by dishonest, manipulative people when it comes to romance because such people are seen as easy to exploit. NO WONDER there's so much resentment towards the opposite sex here!
We seem to get the worst kind of people gravitating to us! :evil: Last 2 "relationships" I had involved highly manipulative women.


You know, thats one area where I'm really glad to be a guy. Women who fit that profile seem not to bother me, like they just know I can spot them from a mile away and would never let them near me.