Do people tell you you're phisically attractive?

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Transcendence
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05 Dec 2007, 4:34 pm

People say I'm handsome, but my personal opinion is I'm of average comeliness. Think my eyes are the strong point. (the case with many AS I think).

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05 Dec 2007, 4:49 pm

roboticalien wrote:

Yes, but people always find out how socially awkward I am, so it doesn't matter.

I can relate to that one. As many things as I have going for me, none of them amount to much without having it together socially.

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05 Dec 2007, 5:18 pm

hmmm I was trying to remember the physical comments that I got during my lifetime (since child) and none of them was positive.
PS:I am 5'3 , 56 kilo (skinny) with glasses , white skin and dark hair and 25 years old.

Here's the list:
-"kazam" (hobbit)
-petit
-"zmik"(shrimp)
-bad teeth ( I had terrible teeth when I was child because of strong medicaments , the dentist could fix them partially with braces but he couldn't continue because my teeth are so weak, he said the treatment will damage them greatly in long term)
-skinny
-stake
-very thin
-skeleton
-kid
-4 eyes
-small
-little
-"cute"
-harry potter

You just let me remember that my male ex-worker always got positive compliments from girls while I got none ...hmmm, no one wonder I still single.

Only my mother was used to tell that I am handsome but you know that mothers are the most liars when it comes to this subject....hmm

[opposite] My many thanks to the thread's initiator for brining me back pleasant memories and boosting my self-esteem after this lovely midnight , that what the first I really needed , I really appreciate for making me happier. I really wish that you stay sexy for whole lifetime and still boasting about it in forums and making others feel better . I love you Greentea.[/opposite]

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05 Dec 2007, 5:45 pm

I remember in 6th grade this very , very mean boy (he was also the cutest) whipped his head back at me for no reason and said I was so fu908ing ugly I would never get married..all within 3 seconds...I was very hurt,and he spoke the truth...years went by, my braces came off, my glasses switched to contacts, I lost weight, straightened my hair, and blossomed...I 've been married for over 20 years, and have been asked if I was ever a model on seperate occasions...I am still the ugly duckiling inside when people comment on my physical traits, I feel uncomfortable..However, I am now more comfortable in my skin at age 40 than I was at 18.......make sense?

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05 Dec 2007, 5:55 pm

edal wrote:

Well, I've been told once or twice that I have nice eyes.

So have I. That's about the only physical attribute that people have ever complimented me on, though.

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05 Dec 2007, 5:57 pm

rushfanatic wrote:

I remember in 6th grade this very , very mean boy whipped his head back at me for no reason and said I was so fu908ing ugly I would never get married..all within 3 seconds...I was very hurt,and he spoke the truth...years went by, my braces came off, my glasses switched to contacts, I lost weight, straightened my hair, and blossomed...I 've been married for over 20 years, and have been asked if I was ever a model on seperate occasions...I am still the ugly duckiling inside when people comment on my physical traits, I feel uncomfortable..However, I am now more comfortable in my skin at age 40 than I was at 18.......make sense?

To be honest, no, it doesn't make much sense to me. First of all you said that he spoke the truth and you're married. I'm having trouble putting two and two together here.

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05 Dec 2007, 6:02 pm

Deathklatt, I was 12 years old at the time...I really thought I was the ugliest girl in the class... He was wrong when he said I would never get married, but when he said it, it just hurt me so bad.... He was also the kind of kid who mowed cats down with lawn mowers, so his words echoed for a long time...

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05 Dec 2007, 6:10 pm

rushfanatic wrote:

I see your point. Sorry for being rude.

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05 Dec 2007, 6:16 pm

Deathklatt, Hi, apology accepted... I think he's probably in prison by now, afraid to bend down to pick up his soap....

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05 Dec 2007, 7:44 pm

Only the parents say that I'm handsome

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05 Dec 2007, 8:38 pm

TheBladeRoden wrote:

Only the parents say that I'm handsome

Same here, brother. Same here. That and my ex-girlfriend. She's the only person my age to ever tell me that. It pisses me off and makes me sad at the same time. I think that parents are pretty much obligated to tell a child and his or her parent that the child is handsome/pretty/whatever. They can't just go, "Hello Thomas, you're quite fugly." But you can't do that.

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05 Dec 2007, 9:05 pm

People tell me I dress nicely and that they like the way my hair is styled.

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05 Dec 2007, 10:14 pm

I got plenty of compliments back in the day; but the deal breaker was my personality type, which was not quite up to par with my looks.

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05 Dec 2007, 10:19 pm

Yes.... however.....

Family- Opinions can't be trusted
Vered- Pathological liar
Random girls- Not wanting to "hurt" my feelings, or feels "pressured" into it

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05 Dec 2007, 10:26 pm

Sometimes.

My Mom will tell me I look good even on days when I know I look horrible. So her opinion no longer counts.

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06 Dec 2007, 7:45 am

On occasion. It seems to happen a fair bit lately.

LPP, you sent me your photo once through MSN. I think you are quite good-looking.

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