Don't you just hate it...

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I honestly don't know what to do. Anyone got advice for me?

Tell him (or her, don't know who it is)

The worst they could say is that they don't like you the same way, and you'll just have to push it off and try to be friends like normal

Who knows, maybe you guys will hit it off, and visit each other, and decide from then on what to do, leave yourself open to options, and tell the person

Do you know how to be flirty?

eww flirty >_<;;

me hate flirty... me don't see it often, then when me do, me get all self conscious and just wanna hide, and hate the person >.>

No. Wouldn't have a clue.

well its pretty easy-like if he likes you back

or you could get a firend to ask but make sure the guy doesn't know you wanna know...

He does like me back, but... I remember him saying that he never wants to have another relationship.

In that situation, given my past experience, I'd get on a plane and go straight over there without hesitation.

If I had the money, and mum would let me, I'd go to the US and meet him.

I hate having feelings for someone.

why praytell?

I linked him to this thread, so I hope he's read it. He hasn't been online, so I can't ask him though. I hope I didn't freak him out...

While that says a lot, make sure not to rush him.

You said that he mentioned he never wanted to be in a relationship again. Well...though I am but one person, I can say that that can change rather quickly. Not too long ago, I had given up on such things, I didn't even think about it. I didn't want to think about it, because I was so sick of being given the impression that something might go somewhere, only to be shown that I was just being used again. (I was also drowning myself in alcohol at the time, but that's not really the point.) Now... there's no point in trying to describe how amazing of a girlfriend I have, words could never do her justice.

Be direct. Telling him how you feel isn't an ultimatum. It doesn't say "You have to agree to X, Y, and Z by this time." Just make it clear how you feel about him. If he's ready, he will let you know. He may not be, and that's not necessarily a rejection of you, it could just mean that he's not ready for anyone yet.

Thanks for that, shadexiii.

Excuses, excuses... just do it and accept the outcome.

..then you can at least tell yourself you've done what you could, rather than always wonder if you could have had something if you'd only acted.