Going back to the first responder with the whole "wominzer" thing, you know, for years I went out with loads of people, had sex with quite few people, cheated on quite a few as well, but with my gf, I'd never do that to her, because thigns where different with her, if she listened to everyone else, we probably wouldn't be together. I told her all my past and she accepts that and knows that's just what I was like but with her everything is different. I found the person that changed me I guess.
So I would have to horribly disagree with listening to people about someone being the be-all and end-all