How do you tell if a girl's out of your league?

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I would say, remembering my single days (I've been married now for 10 years) that the ability to make women laugh over-rides anything else.

Sometimes it's not the easiest thing in the world to do, but if you can get the hang of that, it really doesn't become that important what you look like.

Just a thought.....

Try and drown her.

If she is a total bee-yotch and tries to control everything you do and say!

I think that goes next to being a little kid next to an adult. Not an adult in the maturity sense but an adult in terms of the grime, the games, all the dark sort of cloak-n-dagger social angles, and the guy who feels like he's willing to do that has to even be better at turning the tables on her, scolding her like she's a bad little kid rather than vice a versa, and even if I was the sort of guy who could do that - f' having to deal with that every day after work, I'd be an alcoholic in a few weeks and as she escalated I'd be half afraid I'd be breaking out the white tank top and the cigar (follow the stereotype and see where it leads)....and the scary thing is most women with their head on straight would look at the guy and be like "Yeah, she's a sublime peace of work...but why didn't you just leave her a long time ago and file a restraining order?".

A lot of the real socially nymphish girls turn around and end up being creepy like this as well, kinda like they that pitbull trigger and when they feel like the guy isn't controlling them they start railing on him, calling him a fa***t and all kinds of things like that, its really disgusting, I've seen it happen to way too many good guys, and its partly why I really want to know what sort of personality I'm working with (yeahyeahyeah, I know, its not wisdom - its a sign of glaring genetic weakness that I don't just go on "wow, she's hot - I'd do her" and deal with the consequences, guess I'm just not enough of a self-sacrificing lemming for the gene pool to be a proper man in that sense - no, this isn't self hate, the dating scene is that shite that this is why all to often I'm perfectly fine just throwing my hands up and staying home or going to house parties with the same faces and nothing new).

I can often make people laugh but I'm not that comfortable talking to new people so it doesn't come out then!

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In a perfect world perhaps. Quite often I've seen relationships where the girl is very attractive, the guy isn't too bad either but he feels like she's way out of his league, she cheats and plays game, and friends on all sides see that dynamic and feel that if anything he's too good for her - but at the same time if he broke up with her he'd be single for a long time; he may have been too good for her but he's not all game and the world, as it is, would never recognize him as such because of the pregame.

Gwen, I think that's probably the ultimate hurdle any guy faces - the hoops beforehand, and it usually weeds out the best guys because they aren't lying and lets in a mix of loser as well as the guys who just do have that much going for them that they can wear it on their sleeve without being anything they aren't. That leaves the masses in a really weird situation that they know they can't easily work their way out of.

A girl is out of one's league if they are rude, manipulative, controlling, disrespectful, only think of sex, and many more personality traits that just aren't worth one's time.

Lord, all these baroque theories make me tired.

Just ask the girl out and see if she says yes, for God's sake.

What just for him?

For any of you. Individual girls may or may not be attracted to you, but that doesn't mean that other girls of that physical type will feel the same way.

I think Yoshie has the right idea, personally.

Even when really attractive girls have shown interest in the past. I've always messed things up. Then I ended up feeling like chucking myself off a bridge. Its like a dream when its happening and some freak jumps into my body, and I act like a weirdo. Its gone beyond a joke now, i'm past help

I don't know i end up pulling some really hot girls in my opinion... but they all end being crazy, cheaters, liars, dumb, users, or all of the above.

So i would agree no girl is out of your league, the hard part is introducing yourself to their life.

oh believe me you'll know, its like trying to chop a tree down with no tools. you cant push it over and you need the tools

Not to sound corny, cliche, whatever, but no girl is out of your league. It's worth a try, don't limit yourself. There are attractive girls who aren't ditzy that exist.

I certainly like to think so.