Aspie Affection. Anyone getting played?

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So you are thinking you are being played because she looks like a model? If you look at her arms, it's obvious she is double jointed and that seems to be an aspie trait.

Looking at her profile though, her interests don't really match up with aspie like interests then again you never know. Some aspies learned to fake it to make it.

request#1: After while , always request a webcam chat
request#2: if she's claiming that she doesn't have a webcam , tell her to send more pics.


If she's negative in the 2 requests just delete her. Personally, I blocked/deleted all girls who were being extremly lovely to me online yet refused the request#1 because they were obviously hiding something(yet I can see the webcam icon on under her Display pic).

Hmmm....after reading well her profile , I can't be sure if she's a fake model scammer.

First , she's short 5' 5" (165 cm) -about same my height (abt 1 cm slightly taller than me):lol: , so she can't be a model.

Second, I knew a really nice girl in real life who has hobby of taking 'model shots' and I am sure there are many like her.

Third, you said that she seemed smart in chat .....well this is not a trait of playful or scammer girls .

Fourth, what a babe! she's worth the risk.

Very interesting. I believe one can uphold various values of BOTH Christianity & Objectivism if one's mind can handle it. Double jointed is really more of a laymen's term, the actual medically accepted label is ligament laxity, and I am rather impressed, that is true. I have been diagnosed with ligament laxity, although it's no bother, just fun for parlour tricks and flexibility in other "realms" of my life. I am glad to see that you admire my intelligence, Kyle. I truly hope you are doing well. We'll have to keep in touch more frequently.

perhaps she just became overwhelmed by the idea of meeting you face to face .its a big deal for some people

I tried a dating site once, just because I'll try anything. I looked through a lot of profiles and only saw one that looked appealing. At first, we seemed to have a lot in common. We talked on the phone for a couple of hours. But afterwards, I couldn't stop thinking about a few things he had said that, to me, implied that we had very different taste. Then he kept calling me. He called me at 9:30pm one night to invite me over for a "late dinner" when we had never met in person before. I got creeped out and told him to stop calling me.

Maybe he was actually a nice guy. Maybe he was an aspie (he seemed like one) and did not realize that some of the things he did were creepy. I mean, the things that made me want to stop talking to him were probably inconsequential details to him. But that's the way it goes. Sometimes something makes you realize that it won't work out. When that happens, I just want to break off contact so as not to waste each other's time.

I don't blame guys for wanting to meet right away. In fact, I get impatient myself if too many e-mails go back and forth without a meeting invite. Obviously, no matter what great pen pals we make, it's not going anywhere if there's no chance of a physical attraction.

I deal with the safety issue by only ever meeting for the first time in a public place, and by not disclosing my home address, place of work, or telephone number until I feel comfortable with the guy.

CrotchetyOldMan will play you like a drum.