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26 Feb 2008, 12:30 am

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Definitely yes. I mentioned this once before, but the last date I went on, I was considered rude and boring because I didn't immediately jump in to making out with the bi chick being passed around, taking body shots off of my date, and generally acting like a complete ret*d.

I will gladly do something fun and exciting with whoever I go out with, but it has to be something that involves being sober, and is perfectly legal. I've asked quite a few girls I've dated if they'd find a motorcycle ride out on a winding back country road in nice weather to be acceptable.

Apparently, though, women don't find dates exciting unless the guy is doing everything the girl tells them not to do.

So, I've come to the conclusion females don't know what they want, and therefore don't have a say.

I can identify with this. I don't drink either, and a lot of people don't know how to socialize without it. Lots of women aren't even comfortable with guys unless they are drinking (not ALL women, but most who drink regularly are like this). It's messed up, I know...



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26 Feb 2008, 1:50 am

Not really, but I find it hard to keep up sometime. One of my workmates sang," could you be the mos boring-est guy in the world" about one of the geeks in the office. So I do know that this problem is an issue with geeks.



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27 Feb 2008, 2:31 pm

They're never interested enough to bother saying that :)



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27 Feb 2008, 4:09 pm

No, but I've had guys tell me I'm boring.



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27 Feb 2008, 5:06 pm

Not directly, but I've been on dates that have started out even boring by my standards, as my mind is completely blank and they can't talk. Fortunately, I always recover strong though and can carry a topic very well when I get one. Just a quick hint... if you're completely clueless, ask about them.



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27 Feb 2008, 6:21 pm

Anyone willing to give me a chance never seems to find me boring. In fact, the women that have gave me a chance (there have only been 3) enjoyed talking to me every chance they got. The problem was that they were at the time dating friends of mine and I didn't want to come between them.


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28 Feb 2008, 1:10 am

Anything but. XD Sometimes they wish I was MORE boring....



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04 Mar 2008, 3:28 pm

NEVER.

If there is one thing that I am most definitely Not, it is *boring*. I have been told that I am very intense and aggressive, and in some cases Ive been told that Im rather irritating(in my pedantic style of conversation)and immature. But no one who has ever communicated with me could POSSIBLY say that Im boring :lol: .



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04 Mar 2008, 4:24 pm

I'm always told I'm too weird or eccentric, but not boring...



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04 Mar 2008, 4:31 pm

Does predictable count? My ex-girlfriend called me that once.

Mostly I get called weird.


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04 Mar 2008, 8:35 pm

Most guys have some really boring habits (hello Wall Street Journal). My wife thinks that my interest in politics and history is incredibly boring and tells me so all the time. However, I find many of her interests boring too. Trust me, there is nothing more boring than going shopping with a woman. However, if a woman likes you she'll overlook your boring traits. If it makes you feel any better, being married is 80% doing boring things as a couple.