why do girls sometimes treat me like a little kid?

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The height thing is is still an awfully strange thing and very dumb thing to say. I know tall guys who suck at everything. Their height is not an advantage. Anyway your second point makes sense, maybe I am too passive, and child like. Its kind of annoying, though. I always seem to attract tough or wild girls, which I like but then I end up getting talked to like I'm a child, which is ridiculous. I could have them against a wall and bang them easily, and they treat me like a child!

Okay now this is getting ridiculous. A guy who acts low-class is not more masculine. "Remeber the term gentleman", they used to run the world, they were the Generals and lawyers and clergyman.

.... with that sort of attitude, I'm not surprised you're not getting the respect you want.

yea lol That's obviously just look at the guy's illogical explanations for things.

this is not something I would ever say to them, so what about all the guys who get girls by having this attitude?

And who said that Generals and lawyers were not masculine? Success and determination are signs of masculinity.

Right if a guy is un unusually short like some guys that are a boys size and have never grown to a man's size. But that is not my or most people's situation and I doubt that's what he meant. He was being a smart-ass. (actually more of a dumb-ass). You know I am not like this in person at all. I am quite the opposite. I think I must have two personalities. lol

Sigh...much confusion.

First of all, theres no such thing as a gentleman. I don't care what you think of certain actions and how rude they may be, the simple fact is women like assertiveness. Their sexual nature is submissive by default, and although they scream and cry for a sensitive guy, don't ever be so foolish as to think they don't want to be dominated in some way.

And second, it doesn't matter what face a person puts on when faced with a certain situation. I am both the Lord and Savior, I could explain in pages how humanity should be saved, how it has it's graces. Then in the other, I could reveal how much I detest and despise them all, and how the failed experiment known as creation cannot be corrected unless erased.

So, in closing, think a little more in depth of what people may say, and how they act. They're human after all, and follow a rather predictable pattern of thinking...

you are missing my damn point! I'm saying that the educated classes if you look at the traditional behavior of a general, was considered a gentleman's profession. Keyword here is gentleman. Also if you watch older films, think about guys like Cary Grant. Not cocky at all but very masculine, and considered a ladies man. Think

I'm going to be very frank and tell you what I'm observing here.

Right now you're talking over the Internet, and not in real time... so you have the opportunity to pause, collect your thoughts, etc. But you are still making some very impulsive statements without taking time to think it over before you hit "submit". When you're in a face-to-face social situation, you have even less opportunity for self-editing, so I imagine that when you're around a girl who makes you feel comfortable, you may be saying a lot of things that sound kind of silly or even jerk-like, because it's the first thing that came to mind.

Or is the timidity you talk about born of the fear of that happening?

I already clarified that bullying was not my intention....in fact I wanted to help you to find out the reason of your problem , I just asked 'how tall are you' and I told you that I am short just to make you sure that I wasn't bullying you. Yes, I had some insecurity toward my height during the school days and this is very normal for every short boy.

It seems that you are the insecure bully one , accusing me of insecurity and napoleon complex just because I mentioned the height thing ....your insulting reaction just proves that you are completely insecure about your height , yet you are in denial.

Okay there are gentleman. What is your socioeconomical background? I'm guessing you are lower-class or you wouldn't have said. Also you are generalizing. Not all women like the overly assertive as*hole type. If they were all like that the human race would pretty much be extinct. Also I have met many domineering and agressive women who were still very feminine. There are sensitive men who are masculine, and frankly I think your view of the world is quite small, or you would know that there are all different types of men and women. On another note guys who are naturally shy should not have to change who they are. American society in many ways is getting very progressive in this area, and you do see shy men with domineering women. Yet people sometimes jokes about it. Btw the anime references make YOU seem quite childish and immature, time to turnoff the cartoons.

I never said anything about a napoleon complex... (also I'm just shy of 6' and perfectly content about that...)

If I were in your position, I would be trying to place blame of not being able to get a woman on my weight (I'm a bit overweight), just as you place blame on your height, rather than accepting the fact that I (and most of us here) simply lack the social skills required to engage in romantic encounters... I, for one, tend to be overwhelmed in the atmosphere where one would meet women (bar/club atmosphere in particular), and so never get to the first stage in a relationship...

Okay not every short boy has problems with their height. I don't even want to know how Al pacino or Martin Scorcese would react to what you just said. Also I am not insecure about my height I don't know why the f**k you keep bringing it up. I told you I am not short. Taller does not mean older or more masculine. There are guys 6 feet and over who are wusses, and seem chidlish. A chidlike nature has nothing to do with height.

Way to go Toadofsteel you hit the nail on the head. its all about lacking social skills.

I am not blaming my height ....I know loads of short guys who are ladies guys because they are very social , yet don't be too fooled social skills are not just everything too.


I am just saying that short height make thing harder , a short guy/girl needs to make more effort so people can see her/him mature in their eyes.

I just asked "how tall are you?" and you and that kid started to psychologically analyzing me.


I think kid020 is the 'id' of ToadOfSteel.