Help, i'm being seduced by a girl who dreams of pregnancy

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I just feel a little bit blackmailed, because as far as i'm concerned I couldn't turn down a bit of intimacy in my situation but at the same time there's what she wants - so to summarise she wants to be knocked up but I just want a kiss and a cuddle...lol, too very far away extremes

Hi, although you probably may laugh at the title, well, yes it is funny, as in 'isn't life funny' type of way, however...

It's true, my office colleague (and kind of lunch buddy) who interacts with me on a deep level and plays mind games with me 9-5 wants me to get her pregnant, she already has a boyfriend but I guess her priority is in having a child, be it a rather odd way of going about it, she hasn't said this out loud and directly but she keeps going on about all these recent films - Juno, Knocked Up and Accidental Pregnancy and asking if I like them, and she said today she keeps having reoccuring dreams of pregnancy, the signals are pretty clear and because i'm so dam well innocent, passive and vulnerable it's kind of scaring me a bit. Especially as I have told her before that I find her attractive. I think i'm going to have to be mean in response to her, she is so manipulative but my mind blindness doesn't pick up on everything she does and therefore I am easily lead in conversation.

I've never had a girlfriend and she knows it, she knows i'm innocent and she knows I find her attractive, I just hope she doesn't boil bunnies.

any advice how to handle this absurd scenario?

hey thanks for the advice

an added fact though which I didn't mention is there's this staff room downstairs which is not used much (oh golly my luck), she said to me today that it's lockable, we've had lunch in there before...it all makes sense

I shall stay away from there! lol

Get a vasectomy and you could probably get away with free sex 5 or 6 times before she starts calling shenanigans...

(that was a joke btw...)