Having Kids

Post Reply New Topic

I know Kevin-John and I aren't ready for kids or marriage yet.

The thing is, we don't need to be 100% adults to have kids or a sucessful marriage. In fact, I think it's preferable to still be a little young at heart so it's easier to relate to your kids.

Kevin-John I think knows he's the more mature one most of the time, but he know I also support him. He knows I will be able to give the kids things emotionally and physically that he can't, yet he can be a strong guiding hand for them and provide for them in ways I can't.

We're a team, we're partners, and we're best friends.

And that means we work together at a pace that suits both of us.

I've never wanted anything other than to have kids...four or five if I could afford them...but my fiance doesn't want but maybe one, and he is resistant to even that.

It DOES make a difference when you think about being with someone forever.

When I was a teen, I loved kids, babysitting was a regular job for me.

Now I am 25, getting married soon. As of right now, I do not want kids, there are so many things I want to do first and having kids not would just tie me down.

However a few years down the road that could all change, I could be desperate for a child for all I know, but I wanna adopt.... give a kid that already exists a home.