Ladies: How important is it to you that a man be confident?

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Ladies: How important is it to you that a man be confident?
Very 11%  11%  [ 5 ]
Somewhat 13%  13%  [ 6 ]
Not very 7%  7%  [ 3 ]
Not at all 7%  7%  [ 3 ]
Just want to see results 62%  62%  [ 28 ]
Total votes : 45

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20 Mar 2008, 10:32 pm

gwenevyn wrote:
I think I was too specific. Basically the idea that I'm trying to convey is that I think being a weenie is unattractive. This was just the first example that occurred to me. There's a noticeable difference in attitude between a man who ignores a challenge because the challenge is beneath him (or irrelevant to his interests), and a man who ignores a challenge because he's scared of losing.


Do you have an example of one of these 'challenges' gwen?

I'm not one to really put up a competitive challenge... except in perhaps eating...

But I'm not one to back down on moral principles and such things.

Of course there is the whole issue of knowing that a challenge is offered in the first place...


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26 Mar 2008, 1:21 am

Not at all. I think it's kind of cute when guys are shy, and usually the shy ones are a lot more in depth than the overly confident ones. Also, it takes a lot longer to get to know the shy guy, which keeps everything interesting



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26 Mar 2008, 2:03 am

gwenevyn wrote:
There's a noticeable difference in attitude between a man who ignores a challenge because the challenge is beneath him (or irrelevant to his interests)
How is something beneath someone a challenge?



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26 Mar 2008, 2:37 am

Asking women what they're attracted to is plain silly.

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