What would your dream date be like?

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What kind of atmosphere would you like to be in?
What kind of person would you like to be on the date with?
Would your date be an aspie?
Would it be a romantic dinner or a walk in the park?

Atmosphere? Not very picky

Kind of person? One with the same interests and beliefs as me.

Aspie? Yes

Dinner or Park? Are those our only options?

i would probably want to be at said girls house without anyone else in the room.

it would be a cute heavy (180 pounds +) girl with cerebral palsy (dont ask why i just prefer girls with CP over normal ones)

not really, aspies are not exactly totally my type , im not even an aspie...

it would be neither, we would just lay around in her room talking with each other (if she cant speak i have ways such as my direct touch communication and my classic stare into the eyes and see what she is thinking) and we would be doing lots and lots of tight warm hugs and warm wet kisses and laying on top of each other (her on me)

Me having enough backbone to ask if it's a date or two friends having dinner together.

My dream date? In all honesty, I'm thankful for any date (except really bad ones). Having a dream date is just a far-fetched bonus.

Although personally, I've gotten jaded with the dating process, and my most recent date went something like this. Walk into a nice hotel room, put the money on the nearest flat surface, talk to the girl for a few minutes until my nervousness passes, get intimate with her, make small talk while getting dressed, and walk out with a smile on my face. She was pretty hot, too.

Mmm...I don't know. We'd see a GOOD movie (not some half-assed piece of junk)...and there'd be a lot of sitting and talking. Just talking, you know? Maybe someplace where there's good music, and a dark gothic atmosphere. Very laid back. Not trying to seem better or more formal than we actually are--though maybe wearing nicer clothes than normal.

Really, my dream date would be less about the events of the date and more about the person and how well I got along with her. How well our conversations went. Whether or not we *clicked*, you know?

Id want us to meet and get all dressed up so that we would walk hand in hand down a busy street in downtown on a balmy night
and I'd FINALLY get my chance to have some REAL armcandy(presumably she'd be wearing a short dress/skirt with heels ). The next stage would be going to a movie and then driving out into a place where its dark and woodsy; then making out and gettin' *busy* in the backseat of my car . Id also want a chance to french kiss and feel her up on the street corner while we're downtown and maybe get a chance to catch some other guy staring at her and maybe even get a chance to ask forcefully: "Whatcha lookin at!" .

Nothing particular, I'd just like to be relaxed, so I could be myself.

She would be just like me in every detail, except she would be female.

So your face, legs, and everything else except for boobs and a vagina?

I meant interests and beliefs.

Haha, I know. I was kidding around.

hmmm... i guess id really have to be wit teh perfect gal. you know, one who A. i find atractive B. is relatively smart (not so mutch a big issue... just a bonus and more to talk about ;p). C. one who isn't fond of drugs and isn't fond of... bad... type... people... you know, thugs, drugys, undisciplined and badly behaved people. and then we'd probably go to a restaurant and eat stuff then go to wherever/home XD. i dont like outside though... too many people. lol

x2!!

I like learning more about myself by seeing others express themselves.

I had to take a few days to think this one over.

I love sunrises and sunsets. The colors in them are magical to me.

I would start my dream date at the beach watch a sunrise. The woman with me is someone who I either know and trust very well (i.e. been dating for a long time), or married to. (I still plan to date my wife after marrying... after having been alone for so long, I feel I will appreciate having someone there.)

While at the beach watching the sky brighten up we share something hot to eat and drink. Little or no talking, but we do cuddle as the sky begins to perform it's show. I know I will want to watch the colors of the sky reflect off her face and in her eyes. (It will give me memories to reflect on and remind me of happy times when I need to think of good things and not pain.)

After the sun has risen and we are ready, we take a day drive on country roads to enjoy the scenery. If she wants to stop and shop at antique stores or have coffee/tea at a small shop in some small town off the beaten that is great. As long as I get to watch her having fun, smiling, and enjoying herself, then I will too.

As the day goes on, we have a nice meal somewhere and perhaps try something new we have never eaten before (I have always wanted to try Cuban or Turkish food, but no chance yet).

Sundown... back again to the beach... a different one than in the morning. Again we cuddle in silence as we watch that blazing orb of light sink beneath the horizon yet again. With the coolness of the night we get into the tide about knee deep and hold each other. With the wind and waves moving around us, the embrace of her would give me yet another memory of beauty to treasure the rest of my days.

This is one idea of a "perfect" date for me.