NoOnesBoy wrote:
continued thank-yous! and MissConstrue, please do add your two cents! it's an ongoing learning process and there have got to be more people than myself who have this difficulty (i hope
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I can certainly relate to alot of what you describe. I often can't tell with the less obvious flirting and with the more obvious stuff, I doubt myself at the time.
I've looked back at many times where I'm pretty certain I should have said/done something in return and maybe something could've happened. And some of these instance's have been REALLY obvious on reflection, the worst being when out in a club an extremely attractive girl was dancing against me. Numerous thoughts came to mind as to why she wouldn't be interseted - maybe it's because she was to drunk, or the club was too crowded so not enough space, etc - so I more or less convinced myself not to. IDIOT!
I suppose, as has already been suggested, I just need to be clear in intentions and deal with the results.
I'm glad you posted, lets me know there are others in this situation and gives me a few tips!