roguetech wrote:
How a woman looks doesn't matter blah blah blah....
ask a woman if she feels that how she looks doesn't matter.
better yet, try suggesting to a woman that her appearance doesn't matter or that she shouldn't put any effort into being attractive.
and I don't mean trying to be sweet and saying it in a way that suggests that she's always attractive regardless of what she does or how she actually looks.
if you dont see my point.. if you tell someone that their appearance doesn't matter, they can take that as you suggesting that they are physically unattractive anyways and likely they will not respond in a way that your statement suggests that they should.
generally it's not sweet to say to someone, "I can love you even though you look ugly."
and acting in such a way but not presenting your true view on it, well, isn't exactly forthcoming.
it's a good idea and all and a guidline for respecting others.. i think there are those that are pressured into accepting the idea on the basis of if you reject a person bc you don't find them physically attractive then you are reducing value from their human status, but at the same time it's perfectly acceptable to not be attracted to someone that is outside of your gender preference, though you don't devalue them as a human being.
would anybody here accuse me of being shallow?
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Last edited by Shayne on 02 May 2008, 8:15 pm, edited 1 time in total.