Bradleigh wrote:
I keep getting told that I am good looking, but no girls realy act like that, do I send wrong signals, maybe my personality blocks out my handsom good looks.
*nods* I've been told something similar too. :/ The way it was explained to me, is this:
Girls don't usually approach guys. And they approach guys they find unattractive FAR less. But if she finds a guy quite attractive, and he doesn't seem to notice her when he first sees her, it's easy for her to feel insecure. So it's quite likely, she'll assume you are just uninterested, especially if she figures you're "out of her league". She may just assume any really attractive guy already has a girlfriend, unless she's approached.
Unfortunately, Aspies don't often engage strangers positively the moment they enter a room; we have to get our bearings a bit. So on top of making her anxious with your looks, she's probably reading you as disinterested. Best bet is to take the miscommunication as read, and make a move anyway. Worst that can happen is she turns you down; worse things happen at sea.