Tips for finding a girlfriend

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Do you interact with people during the day? If you don't adopt some hobbies which necessitate working with someone. If you do, attempt to create a regular interaction with the same people. Then become friends. Then become friends with their friends. People networks are very expansive, eventually you should run into single people you're interested in.

1. Don't try real hard or at least try harder to act like you aren't

2. The better looking he/she is the more you want to show them that your selecting them, not vice a versa (ie. flirtatious mock-aloofness, cracking on em, etc.)

3. Make em laugh above all else

4. Do as much as you can to let moments speak for themselves rather than trying to articulate it all

5. Do everything you can to have your personal resonance ratchetted up. Try to eminate the kind of energy which you feel would in and of itself offer them reward in talking to or being arround you.

I think not talking too much is probably a good idea if you want to find a girlfriend. Letting someone else get a word in will generally be better.

Try reading some http://www.tuckermax.com/archives/entries/the_tucker_max_advice_page.phtml maybe?

Try saving them from being tied to some traintracks, or from a burning building, or getting their kitten down from a tree, or saving their aunt from a creepy guy with tentacles attached to his back, or bust them out of prison, or just make a really really cheesey pick-up line. Or tell them I sent you.

dont wast your time. just have sex with your hand

exactly ! and hack a lot of porn websites, and download hundreds of XXX dvds !

Take an assesment of yourself & play up your stregnths.

When I say that I do not mean create something that is not you but rather look at what is going for you.
However everything starts with faith-- in yourself. reconize your stregnths & believe in it

A. Brains: a smart man is a very attractive man-- but here's the key -- if you know you are smart then you don't have to show it except when needed --hands on. Without trying to pick on a member-- a good example of the wrong way to do this is look at the mature forum. There's an over-confident member that comes across as trolling while trying to cram down our throats his theories-- very annoying. On the flipside (although I've been here a few days so I'm talking about what I have read so far)...take IrishMic & Alex.... their opinions seem more enlighting but to the point. As a result -- they rise on the sexiness scale.

B. Focused: A determined man exudes power -- at the same time it's better to be determined on a realistic goal & not a far fetch belief or even a person, genra or game. example: the guy from the mature forum vs. Bill Gates. Do I need to go into further details here???

C. Details: It's the little things that will be remembered. Noticing that she was reading Robert Frost poetry last week and asking her what her favorite poem was. Taking note of her pet peeve & then avoid it at all costs.... Buying her starbucks coffee exactly how she like it.. it's the small things that can really impress her because it shows that you notice her and are considerate enough to keep her feelings in mind. Now don't just walk up to a girl with a detailed list of her likes & dislikes for the first meeting of saying hello-- you would come across as stalking just take things one at a time.

D. Kindness: an endearing man can touch a women's heart-- Now I've read at different places that AS are stereotypically self focused, yet there is pleanty of threads here that disproves such notions. Kindness is just placing yourself in other's shoes-- and asking yourself how would I want to be handled in this situation-- then do so. There's a belief that nice guys finish last & girls go for the bad guys. Actually women see the bad guys as being confident and that is what is so attractive. However those relationships turn sour because the guys are so "bad" , yet the nice guys who are confident don't come across as being "nice". Instead they come across as being sexy.


These of course are just my opinions.. take them as you will-- but it can be applied to every guy at this forum.

Good luck!!
Roe

Always respect them. I think that speaks for itself.
And never try and force them into anything or jump at their throat because they love something you hate. Be nice to them and if you're nice to them and talk to them openly and honestly you'll at least make a good friend out of it, if not a girlfriend (or boyfriend). And his/her friends may have other friends who you can get to know better and you have a network!

Alot of what is posted here is simler to what I do execpt the be your self thread. I think I actually pull off the slightly confident intellegent guy perfectly. I also do the fitness and style good too. I work out alot to keep fit. This is great because keeping fit means I look better and I don't have to work that hard to find girls that are interested. One problem is though lately I have not been in any groups or any thing but I am about to join a course in computers at tech so I should meet some people again like I did last time I went to PolyTech