Friend Zone thread

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Friend Zone is the worst place to be...I would have rather never met them.

yeh ^ i cannot believe girls EXPECT this out of a guy, i think girls made up this bs "friend zone" just to be "c*ck teasers", it's un-natural

Real friendship between the 2 genders can only be developed since childhood or at least during long time ...like any real friendship. Being in 'friends zone' because she doesn't see you that way ...is just an excuse of rejection and just want you to use you emotionally when she has an emotional problem with her bf.

Oh, grow up.

as a female i've never been able to be friends with a guy who was interested in me and i didn't feel the same way back... it just weirds me out and the "friendship" feels unbalanced somehow... either they put me up on a pedestal or there's some underlying tension because he's resentful of me not reciprocating his feelings which manifests as the occasional snide remarks when i express what i want and my ideas of love... and it also feels like there's some kind of ulterior motive for him getting close to me, like he thinks he could grow on me or whatever... and vice versa, i don't think i could ever feel comfortable being friends with a guy who didn't feel the same way... in both cases i'd just rather not have him in my life

i've never believed in this "let's stay friends" BS... i've always felt it was just a way for the rejecter/dumper to feel like they're still being "nice" and sensitive to the rejectee's feelings... because really how good could the friendship ever be with such an imbalance of emotion..?

Win.

Thanks.

There's always an imbalance, as no one knows how the other feels ("friendship" for example). Even actions can't be telling of such as each action requires a different amount of effort for each person.

The correct question is, can you handle it that someone who's your friend, also wants to enter your bedroom?

Friendship is too important to me to kill over simple lustful thoughts on one side that aren't reciprocated (most males have had lustful thoughts for their mother at one time or another, but this doesn't make mothers break motherhood).

JohnHopkins you are WHIPPED!

Who Am I, ur a woman, how possibly can you comment?

I'm whipped? Who the f**k by? I'm single!

Uhhh... because... being female, I just might possibly have more insight into why females do things than you do...?
(People like you come out with statements like the one you made before, then you wonder why you can't get a girlfriend. Here's a hint: it's NOT because you're too nice.)

JH - pretty easy, you fell into a trap thinking siding with a chick would be good on your part, not really, it just makes you look like a ki$$a$$, chicks never understand the TRUTH, they always pick at the bad things in nature and you are openly exposing your weaknesses

Who Am I - your prolly just a spoilt rich "girl" who would rather live in Imagination land when it comes to guys, im no fool, being nice WILL get you closer to a chick but ultimately f*k you over in every possible way, most guys can be real good actors when they need to be, people with aspergers simply cannot get chicks easily as we aren't as good liars as the average NT, but believe me hotstuff, we are trying to lie

I don't know why I'm bothering to reply...

I'm neither spoiled nor rich, my parents are working-class and I work to earn my money (how the hell do you get "spoiled rich girl" out of me disagreeing with you, anyway? Where the hell is the logic in that?) , and I don't live in "Imagination land" when it comes to guys: I just think that the idea that most of us would refuse to date guys *just* to make them suffer is ludicrous. There may be some people out there who are like that, but the vast majority aren't, and if the only females you've dealt with are that manipulative, I'm truly sorry for you.

Please refrain from personal attacks. Thanks.

sorry "heat the the moment" type of thing

Yeah, I was agreeing with her just to try and score points. Was nothing to do with the 'they probably thought this was anti-feminist in the Dark Ages' stuff you're spouting. Obviously.