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moderators or administrators lock and delete thread please, all its done is turn into people arguing

^^...you should demand the delete for one condition tho, the deletion of all other similar threads , including the threads started by girls.

But it's your thread....and your will.

It was a cool attitude tho , you proved the women here how wrong they were about you.

http://www.wrongplanet.net/postt76158.html

PM MrMark , he's the most active around here.

I'm sorry I caused such an upset here. I thought JM2008 had a legitimate request. I just wanted to warn him that he might not get an answer. I think it's unfortunate that so many women have had bad experiences from responding to such a request, that their fear will keep them from trying with someone who is probably a nice guy. I did NOT see JM2008 as a loser.
I think most men do not realize that women live in a scarier world than men do. My husband and brother-in-law think nothing of running the gas on the car to nothing and then handing it over to us for an errand. My sister-in-law and I HATE that. But they aren't scared of running out of gas so they don't think about it. We are afraid of running out of gas. We don't know what the guy stopping to help us will really do to us. We are weaker than most of the men out there, and if one decides to assualt, we can fight back but will likely lose. Therefore most women are more cautious.
The criticism that I did not provide an alternative is correct. I should have thought of that.
Anyway, here's an alternative: JM2008, why don't you pose a question such as, Anybody here like ........ and want to talk about it?
I am an aspie. One of my son's also has AS, and daughter has autism plus. When I finally figure out a rule, I like to pass the rule on to someone who might not know it. I hope that doesn't come off as arrogant.

^^ hmmm ...and what if the online girl who's requesting to talk with guy is a super Sumo girl or some saddist freaky serial killer or worse , a rapist macho gay in disguise?

I am skinny and petit ...I am not that strong

I am starting to use your same cautious strategy :
http://www.wrongplanet.net/postp1760914.html#1760914



Thank you for inspiring me.

prince, you cut through all this sexism bullcrap like a hot knife through butter ^.^ x

But from what you wrote, it seemed like you were suggesting that he was some sort of criminal. Aspie men have great difficulties to get to know women in a "normal" way. Therefore many use the internet. As we lack the social skills, we are often quite direct. Like writing that we look for a girlfriend. What you wrote now was far better than your first reply and a lot more productive!

is it a bird? is it a plane?

NOOO....IT'S ASPIE MAN!

watch as he uses incredible powers of analysis to sort this jar of change!

lols ^.^ X

I cannot believe with many posts that have been directly offensive in this forum, why a female gets "what's coming to her."

Even if women do post here just as AspieMan did, with positive more responses how does that make it OK to put a random female down for having an opinion and what was prejudiced about it? If anything, there's a lot of irony in what many guys state about women in most of these posts.

This is part of the reason why I don't post anything in the Love and Dating forum because there's always got to be an angry guy who thinks I'm prejudice. It doesn't take much just to see the reason because of the fact that I'm a female. Yet I've found many posts that came off offensive to me such as Why are Girls such Prudes? Like it's normal for women to be this or that. Too much hypocrisy with this gender crap more than often!!

Anyway AspieMan, try the Aspie Affection if you want to meet some girl. Most likely they're going want to know a little more about you. That's usually where people who are single and interested go.

BTW, not all you guys are like this. It's just reaks in this forum of misogyny if not misogyny something similar!! Had no intention of coming off as the Oh so terrible feminist here but damn!