Signs Of Attraction

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oh man thanks now im screwed now what do i do with this information how do you make the first move as this is my dilema.

Well, you just start bouncing your leg before they start bouncing theirs.

dunno if that would work. I don't know if I'm good at flirting.... I don't see why girls don't start randomly jumping on me and trying to make out. I *do* use tag bodyspray for men so maybe i'm not putting enough on or something.....

I can see why you're confused.

Don't be, and don't be misled by people who try to complicate what is really a very straightforward process. It's science, pure and simple.

Here's the thing: You can't just see a girl roll her pelvis or a guy lean on a door sill and say, "Wanna make out?" You have to look for CLUSTERS of mating behavior.

But they are there. And man, does it work. If you get good at this, you'll know before your target does that he or she is attracted to you. (How is this possible? Because the physical reaction happens before the mental cognition.) The thought will be forming in his or her mind that you're kinda cute, and you'll already have the sparkling smile ready!

People always do SOME of these things when attracted, and you can spot them. And when you spot them, go in for the first move. You can do it!

Yeah, since we're almost all aspies here, I didn't think to mention the caveat: these signals don't hold true nearly as often for aspies.

You'll see some of them, but it's much harder to gauge, because the body language empathy mechanism is either badly damaged or broken in us, and we're reacting to a lot of internal stress that causes things like stimming--which is why we need this sort of knowledge desperately!

I have trouble with knowing whether my partner certanly wants to prceed father in our relationship. She rarely gives definative answers to my questions so I feel lost then I sometimes go ahead and see what the answer is. Usally it is yes.

I don't know about males in general, but I can list the top signals that Roden is interested if you want