KenM wrote:
OK, what if you were feeling down and your mom or dad said "lets go to the mal, I'll buy you something." Then when you get there they said 'Well I'm not going to get you anything. I just said what I said to make you feel better and be NICE to you."
Thats not being an as*hole, is it?
So a lie is a lie is a lie? No. Telling someone disingenuously that you like their hairstyle is nothing like telling someone they'll find out the truth about and be hurt by.