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22 Nov 2016, 5:35 pm

Relationships often start in the
"Romance stage" Then move through several more.
A comic put it this way.
2nd date - you both reach for the salt at the same time. You both look up and smile.
Much later.... same scene And
And
AND
one says give me the xz& &$"@
salt. :x


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22 Nov 2016, 6:27 pm

NeantHumain wrote:
No, what I am talking about here is women's tendency to be openly unpleasant when you try to pursue a relationship with them beyond a certain point. If they don't like you and you keep trying to pursue a relationship or a date or something, do women feel it's okay to just vent their frustrations on you by being as rude about it as possible?


Well why would one feel they should keep pursuing a relationship or date with someone who doesn't like you that way and has expressed that? I don't think there is a need to be be rude right off, but if they turn you down and you keep trying to date them I can understand why they might resort to open unpleasantness.


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23 Nov 2016, 12:29 am

NeantHumain wrote:
No, what I am talking about here is women's tendency to be openly unpleasant when you try to pursue a relationship with them beyond a certain point. If they don't like you and you keep trying to pursue a relationship or a date or something, do women feel it's okay to just vent their frustrations on you by being as rude about it as possible?


If you're pursuing a woman when she's said no, you're in the wrong and being rude. Not her. Women aren't obligated to be nice to you no matter how you treat them.

Someone who won't leave her space or respect her wishes for her own body and feelings is annoying and uncomfortable. Not romantic.

And when you persist after you've been asked to stop, you're toeing the line between being annoying and being dangerous. If someone won't listen to "no" about a date or a touch, it becomes a possibility that they won't listen to a "no" for sex.

You also risk running afoul of harassment laws if you go too far.