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08 Jan 2009, 4:45 pm

Um, about your list of qualities, I don't think all Aspies share all those qualities. For example, I MEAN to keep my promises, but I'm really bad at remembering stuff, so I end up forgetting about the promise. I have good intentions sure, but that obviously doesn't count at the end of the day. And as for being shrewd, I'm a smart guy, and I'm not afraid to admit it. I know a lot of things, but I certainly don't know everything. As for lies, I'm actually a pretty good liar. As for hypocrisy, EVERYONE is a hypocrite about something. So my point is, everyone is different. Sure, your list is generally accurate, but just cause someone is Aspie doesn't mean anything.


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08 Jan 2009, 4:45 pm

Um, about your list of qualities, I don't think all Aspies share all those qualities. For example, I MEAN to keep my promises, but I'm really bad at remembering stuff, so I end up forgetting about the promise. I have good intentions sure, but that obviously doesn't count at the end of the day. And as for being shrewd, I'm a smart guy, and I'm not afraid to admit it. I know a lot of things, but I certainly don't know everything. As for lies, I'm actually a pretty good liar. As for hypocrisy, EVERYONE is a hypocrite about something. So my point is, everyone is different. Sure, your list is generally accurate, but just cause someone is Aspie doesn't mean anything.


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08 Jan 2009, 5:55 pm

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AspieFan911 wrote:
I'm a NT lady who love Aspies. I love them cos they are everything that NTs are not.

Most of them I've come across are mysterious, cool, smart, honest, dependable and have a great sense of justice! They are just so real and rare!! ! I absolutely love their qualities which the world so badly needs!


Are you really serious? Then how come NT's don't sign up on Aspie dating sites? If you're really serious and not trolling then PM me as I'm currently taking applications for new Fans. I personally prefer NTs who like Aspies versus socializing with other Aspies.



She is one of the rare kind. That's why I said I wish there were more people like her.

The list she made, I know not all aspies can do those things but I wasn't up for making a long post by saying I have seen hypocritical aspies and I have seen aspies lie, etc.



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08 Jan 2009, 6:09 pm

I didn't know that we are gods.



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08 Jan 2009, 7:23 pm

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I didn't know that we are gods.

Well it certainly feels good doesnt it? Feels like something out of a SciFi novel or something.



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08 Jan 2009, 8:52 pm

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Why do women claim to want the qualities you admire so well, and then completely ignore the very men that exhibit those qualities?

That my good sir is the golden question that Im confident will never be answered. Woman change there mind on a penny, so that could be a contributing factor.

To the OP (original poster),

Im flattered! Thanks. I especially like this one:
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>>>They have a great sense of justice. Most Aspies have a clear notion of what's right and wrong. They don't bend to social pressure or change their stand under social pressure. That's so brave!!

So many people now a days dont have a spine to do that.


ah. . Airborne, you are saying to the OP you are flattered, yet you condemn her as a changeable woman that can't be trusted because they will change their minds on a penny.

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08 Jan 2009, 9:09 pm

Sure is easy to get people mad around here. All you gotta do is act decent.

Hell, I'm a male, and I think the women on magazine covers and the women in mainstream porn are about as appealing as a potato with ice cream on it. I guess it's what most guys like, though. They're giving the customers what they want to buy.

So if a guy's taste can be different than most people's, isn't it possible the same could be true for a female?


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08 Jan 2009, 10:14 pm

in my personal experience, I have seen "aspies" to be sour, cold, uncaring pricks when it came down to it
they care about only themselves, and are just like any other human-greedy, foolish, etc
they think the world should bend to them because they have a problem and belittle the "NTs" for not changing how everything works because they "don't get it"
not the best bunch of people IMO
I will never be proud of a mental illness, I won't let it rule my life, but I won't go around s**t talking people who don't understand
it might be frustrating but its how the world works
and just because you don't agree with something-doesn't make it wrong
seems so many people here think they're opinion is the right one :roll:
f*****g stupid



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08 Jan 2009, 11:37 pm

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in my personal experience, I have seen "aspies" to be sour, cold, uncaring pricks when it came down to it
they care about only themselves, and are just like any other human-greedy, foolish, etc
they think the world should bend to them because they have a problem and belittle the "NTs" for not changing how everything works because they "don't get it"
not the best bunch of people IMO
I will never be proud of a mental illness, I won't let it rule my life, but I won't go around sh** talking people who don't understand
it might be frustrating but its how the world works
and just because you don't agree with something-doesn't make it wrong
seems so many people here think they're opinion is the right one :roll:
f***ing stupid

Wrong. Thats a farce generalization. One of the only things in this world that makes me happy is being selfless. Its (autism) not a mental illness, that would imply its psychological and its not its neurological. While AS may cause a mental illness dont throw me in the pack of what you think every aspie is.

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ah. . Airborne, you are saying to the OP you are flattered, yet you condemn her as a changeable woman that can't be trusted because they will change their minds on a penny.

Merle

Well I never bashed her for that...even if I did I can still respect her admiration. Gosh does anyone understand my drift when I post? Christ I never get the point across without f*****g with someone inadvertently.



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09 Jan 2009, 12:38 am

Spokane_Girl wrote:
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AspieFan911 wrote:
I'm a NT lady who love Aspies. I love them cos they are everything that NTs are not.

Most of them I've come across are mysterious, cool, smart, honest, dependable and have a great sense of justice! They are just so real and rare!! ! I absolutely love their qualities which the world so badly needs!


Are you really serious? Then how come NT's don't sign up on Aspie dating sites? If you're really serious and not trolling then PM me as I'm currently taking applications for new Fans. I personally prefer NTs who like Aspies versus socializing with other Aspies.



She is one of the rare kind. That's why I said I wish there were more people like her.

The list she made, I know not all aspies can do those things but I wasn't up for making a long post by saying I have seen hypocritical aspies and I have seen aspies lie, etc.


I just asked because I found it odd that a NT would bother taking the time to sign up just to post how much they like us. I'm always paranoid when someone is nice to me because I have experienced that so infrequently unless of course the NT was trying to use me for something. I'm all cool with NT's liking AS people for the way they are. I'd like to have a NT friend who liked me for the kind of person I am instead of someone who just puts up with my oddities but doesn't like them. That's why I asked her to PM me if she was serious cause I'd like to have NT friends that accept me for who and what I am.



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09 Jan 2009, 12:49 am

Thank you for your kind words AspieFan911. :)



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09 Jan 2009, 1:39 am

Give it time and she'll realize that all men are jerks. :lol:


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09 Jan 2009, 2:23 am

Airborne wrote:
Kilroy wrote:
in my personal experience, I have seen "aspies" to be sour, cold, uncaring pricks when it came down to it
they care about only themselves, and are just like any other human-greedy, foolish, etc
they think the world should bend to them because they have a problem and belittle the "NTs" for not changing how everything works because they "don't get it"
not the best bunch of people IMO
I will never be proud of a mental illness, I won't let it rule my life, but I won't go around sh** talking people who don't understand
it might be frustrating but its how the world works
and just because you don't agree with something-doesn't make it wrong
seems so many people here think they're opinion is the right one :roll:
f***ing stupid

Wrong. Thats a farce generalization. One of the only things in this world that makes me happy is being selfless. Its (autism) not a mental illness, that would imply its psychological and its not its neurological. While AS may cause a mental illness dont throw me in the pack of what you think every aspie is.

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ah. . Airborne, you are saying to the OP you are flattered, yet you condemn her as a changeable woman that can't be trusted because they will change their minds on a penny.

Merle

Well I never bashed her for that...even if I did I can still respect her admiration. Gosh does anyone understand my drift when I post? Christ I never get the point across without f***ing with someone inadvertently.


read again-i said i have seen, which means i have seen in the past some aspies who are like this
i know some fantastic people-who have as
it does cause mental illness' and thus is usually categorized as one (i just go what the government classifies it as)



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09 Jan 2009, 3:15 am

I love Aspies too



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09 Jan 2009, 4:13 am

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I love Aspies too


:cheers:



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09 Jan 2009, 7:33 am

LePetitPrince wrote:
I didn't know that we are gods.

this is a good point to start a religion :wink: